tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4292148258761716803.post5117867888274481019..comments2024-03-28T20:39:21.964+08:00Comments on Wisdom of Life.: Silent sorrowAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00323829765053115625noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4292148258761716803.post-46126240872871935142009-03-02T00:00:00.000+08:002009-03-02T00:00:00.000+08:00Hi RL...Sorry to say, Lai has no guts...he has to ...Hi RL...<BR/><BR/>Sorry to say, Lai has no guts...he has to suffer silently. You have true understanding of life for sure.Robert Foohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14266976668744384002noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4292148258761716803.post-74907311380616531572009-03-01T15:50:00.000+08:002009-03-01T15:50:00.000+08:00Hi Robert,Lai's life is surrounded by families who...Hi Robert,<BR/><BR/>Lai's life is surrounded by families who need to understand each other's needs.Get the thinking out of the comfort or "ideal" so to speak.<BR/>Its normal to have the sex requirements, but as a bird's eye view we need to balance all requirements.<BR/>In terms of time, money, commitment and relationships.<BR/>I believe all needs to be balance.<BR/>But then it starts with the guts to think and accept out of the current zone.<BR/>The common problems with us in this part is living in "denials" of the true facts of life. Life is not about forcing people to become what they cannot be, but to accept what they are for or require, then all parties to compromise,negotiate etc..BUT then we all are not as strong in heart to do these......sad isn't it...<BR/>To Lai, its still never too late to start but then to start anything requires a big effort and a big heart.<BR/><BR/>Regards,<BR/>Red LavenderAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com