Do u get jealous over his intelligence or her beauty?

Do men like women to be more attractive and women love men to be more intelligent? Is a debatable question! All men like looking at attractive, sexy and gorgeous ladies. They are appealing and adorable to male eyes. Similarly, I believe all women love to know intelligent and handsome men too. Their intelligence and macho personality appease the feeling of females.

However these only happen when the men and the women are not in love yet. As long as those females are not their wives or lovers and those men are not their husbands or lovers, both sexes could be attractive and intelligent to all eyes. The funny in life is when the lady becomes a wife or lover to a man, he will not like her to be too attractive any more, especially being too sexy or over exposed to other male eyes. Is the same to a man who is now husband or lover to a woman. His intelligence could also be noticed by others ladies.

On the surface everyone behaves as normal but in actual fact, the about is the true facts of life. Man and woman are created with feeling. We have selfishness in our thoughts. We want and possess more than we give and share. When is not yours, you admire and appreciate the beauty. The minute it is yours, you want the entire piece to belong exclusively to your own. This is applicable to most of us. Unless we understand deeper into life. In order to overcome the feeling of selfishness, we have to understand the feeling of love.

Love is patient. Love is kind. It does not envy, it doesn't boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love doesn't delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always hopes, aways perseveres. Love never fails, unless you have selfishness.

To the ladies and the gentlemen, are your husbands, wives and lovers jealous of your intelligence and attractiveness? If they do, it is high time that they should learn the real meaning of true love.

This happy thought by confucius; "To be truly happy and contented, you must let go of what it means to be happy or content."