Please Take Care of Me!

Is easy to fall in love. Is also easy for man to say 'I Love You' to his lady. However is not so easy for woman to fall in love. Ladies are sensitive lovers. They tend to be more mature than men. Before a sensible female picks her mate, she often observes, communicates and understands her partner first. A man confesses his intimate love to his new found lover. In return she asks, "Please Take Care of Me!"

Those few words sound simple and direct but if you are an immature man, you might take it very lightly without realising the real implication. It took me a long time to understand as well. Perhaps I was a lousy lover who had to learn the hard way. Let me share a little with the wisdom of love here.

"Please Take Care of Me!" is meant to be very serious when spoken by a female. She has to be in love intimately before she could utter to her man. She is telling her mate that she loves him and expects him to care for her from now onwards. She expects him to take care of her personal interest. Protect her whenever is necessary. Guide and lead her to the right path of life. Fulfill her dreams and goals by constantly providing motivation and advices. When she is down or upset, tickle her with fun and laughter. Offer her financial support if needed. Care and heal her when she is sick. Give her the sense of security when she is with you. Let her feel proud with your intelligence. In physical and in soul she must be happy with her man.

Gentleman, if you are not sure, please don't simply say "I love you" to any lady. Because if she turns around to say "Please Take Care of Me!", you might find it difficult to shoulder these unwanted burdens. However to my little darling I darn to say, "I will take care of you".

Food for the heart - "Everyone can be great, because everyone can serve" - Martin Luther King