In the working world, an experienced worker works better than one who isn't. The knowledge and mistakes he picks along the way, makes him competence and efficient. The funny thing is when I asked my male friends this question..."You prefer an experienced girlfriend who has many past loves and romances or one that isn't?" All claimed they rather go for the one who is innocent, naive and simple.
In my mind, how could a simple girl who has never fallen in love before would understand the real facts of love and romance. I believe an ideal woman is one who has seen the good and bad part of lives. She has gone through the suffering with pain out from love. She realises her flaws and mistakes which she has encountered from her past relationships. Though the past could be bitter and unpleasant, she is prepared to change and improve. She makes an ideal lover to those who would appreciate and understand the real meaning of life. Not the one you see posted on top here.
I might disagree with this phrase - "A man is lucky if he is the first love of a Woman. A woman is lucky if she is the last love of a man. CHARLES DICKENS
Hi Robert,
ReplyDeleteExperience makes us realized the gaps that need to be closed in future undertakings. Only thru a balance of right and wrong makes that individual ideal.
Yes, true, no doubt that anyone would want to be in an ideal situation all the time. But it wont help develop our minds and dignity..sometimes we need to step out of that "world" and be factual, realistic and courageous in establishing a relationship.
regards,
RL
Hi sister...
ReplyDeleteYou are truly speaking wisdom now. I feel so happy for you.