She was smart to call me last night, asking for some tips and advices to best nurture a good romance. As I was their match maker, I guessed I had to assist them for their betterment. This was what I told the exciting girl.
The man is a tiger who should lead, and the woman is the trainer who should tame the tiger. Just like the grand circus, where the lady animal trainer with one single hand could soften the tigers on show. Tigers are ferocious animals but if they are properly trained and taught, their wildness can be tamed to your fancies. Physically and mentally man could be stronger than woman, but women who know how to use their soft and tender touch would easily melt the iron heart of men. I told JF, never use threat and anger to control her boyfriend. Rather her sexiness and feminine charm would be her strength to draw her man attention. A successful woman in love is the one who needs not control her man and yet the man is too happy to be in control by her. Tame the tiger to be a kitten and the woman would be the proud owner of her pet. A tiger roars with thunder fear but a kitten just 'meom meow' to her delight.
I believe little darling and many great lady readers would agree. Otherwise would appreciate if you could offer some suggestions to my friend JF who is too keen to learn.
Food for the heart - "In real love you want the other person's good. In romantic love, you want the other person." - Margaret Anderson
I like your advice to JF. I agree that using anger and threats is not the best way to control a man... one of my favorite movies is "My Big Fat Greek Wedding" and the best quote from that movie is:
ReplyDelete“The man is the head [of the family], but the woman is the neck and she can turn the head any way she wants.”
Hi LMc1381
ReplyDeleteI am sure you are right coz I feel the same..."I am the master of the house but when my little darling said no, I will say no too".
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Amarjit
Hi Amarjit Kapur,
ReplyDeleteI am sorry you can't, the tiger might go after you.