Mary is my childhood friend. Her brother is my classmate, we grew up together. She got marry in her twenties, but the marriage didn't last long. After her divorce, she remains single and happily working as a professional nurse till today. As almost like an elder brother to her, i used to call her often over the telephone chat. Two years ago, she found a boyfriend who is 10 years younger to her. Though they have no intention to get marry, the relationship keeps her sexually satisfied and happy. At least she won't feel lonesome, and more so a shoulder to lean on when she is sad. I felt happy for this sister as well.
Since i had not spoken to Mary for many months, i called her last nite. Of all the stories she related to me, this really caught me in a limbo. During her last birthday, her boyfriend bought her a special gift from Hong Kong. Nobody would believe it! She received a toy, or to be exact a silicone vibrator for female. Is an eight inches long artificial penis operated by batteries. According to this aggressive sister, this vibrator works wonderfully. Just a few seconds of vibration over the clitoris, the sensation is much more intense than the real one. Ever since this toy is in her hand, she feels than man isn't important to her any longer. The boyfriend regretted of buying this gift for her. She claimed that other women are also using this similar toy for sexual satisfaction whenever their personal need isn't fulfilled.
I was only listening, and i don't think she knew i was upset and felt out of place as a man. In my mind, i just could not believe a little toy could replace a man. Ever since when Adam was created, Eve as a woman was there to appease man. Through revolution changes, i feel sorry for Adam of today, because he is no longer be used by Eve. I am just pondering, is she hiding her feeling when she is not prepared to be responsible to a relationship. Is this her own individual feeling or most female think alike. Hello gentlemen out there! What do you think?
With some doubts, i spoke to my loved one this morning regarding the above. She was very understanding to tell me, "Darling! Sex is a part of nature. I go with nature. What about you?" It was a relieve to me. I replied, "Sweetheart...same with me. I need the physical and mental touches".
I like Robert Heinlein's statement - "Sex without love is merely healthy exercise"
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