Friday, July 31, 2009

Do you have Humility?


Something to ponder??

If you happened to meet two friends, one is rich and successful, and the other is poor... What would you do? You approach the rich one first or the poor first? Be honest and sincere with your answer.

Over a recent gathering, i met several old friends, they were the professionals or business men. Among them sat afar, i saw Ah Kow who dressed in simple attire was alone. He is only a taxi driver, making an honest living, looking tense and uneasy. I smiled to everyone on the floor but walked towards Ah Kow instead. I gave him a warm hand shake, chatted freely with him and later brought him over to the main crowd. With some persuasion and encouragement, everyone was talking freely with him later.

I think the poor needs more attention than the rich. I admire the successful one but i humble and be kind to the needed one. I believe the one who has made it by the hard way in lives would definitely understand what i said, because he has acquired the wisdom of life.

Food for thought - "Humility is the ladder to divine understanding" - Unknown.

Thursday, July 30, 2009

True grit.









See to believe! This is true grit and determination.
Food for thought - "Determination gives you the resolve to keep going in spite of the roadblocks that lay before you" - Denis Waitley.

Wednesday, July 29, 2009

Dedicated & Empathy.


Selling tips...

Nineteen years ago, i sold an endowment life insurance plan to Mr Choong who was then a very established lawyer in town. He was successful and he claimed life insurance and saving were in fact not necessary for him. However with some persuasion and encouragement from me, he took it up out of obligation from me. His wife was handling the company finance, she made special deduction to pay the premium from her bank account.

The first thirteen years were pretty a good time for Choong and his legal practices. However with a twist of luck, something went wrong on the fourteen years onwards, when Choong was no longer in his business. He could not be located and was not in practice anymore. There were no premium deduction from his wife's account. I had not seen him after that.

Last Dec 2008, i received a letter and a cheque amounting 88 thousands plus, addressing to this man. I was surprised his policy had matured, when after taking into account all his indebtedness for premium not paid for the last six years, he still had a balance of this saving on his policy. With this cheque in hand, i tried to locate his last written address in town. Nobody around those neighbourhood, knew where this old man and family had left. I referred to his previous bankers and the place he rented his office previously as well. Nobody seemed to know where this missing man was. I instructed my secretary to check the telephone companies for similar names listed on their directories. She called all the names and not one was him. I referred to the death registrar who confirmed this man was still alive. After three months of investigation on my side without success, i returned the unclaimed cheque to my principle company for safe keeping.

Six months later, my company wrote another letter to me, informing that within fourteen days if Mr Choong doesn't appear to claim this payment, the amount would be sent to our Central Bank as 'unclaimed money'. I was sad to read this statement. The next few days, i called all the lawyers i knew in town to seek their assistance, explaining the story behind. To cut my story short, we managed to trace and locate the poor old man.

He was staying with an unmarried daughter in a small apartment. Six years ago, he failed badly with his investment, his wife was suffering from cancer when a lot of medical expenses were spent, he had a coronary artery bypass at the same time when the wife passed away and currently he is suffering from Parkinson. He was a lost man who lost almost everything.

He could not believe to see me, more so to tell him that there is a cheque for him to collect. He had forgotten this policy i had effected for him, moreover there were no payment made for the past last six years from them. He cried in tears, shaking his emotional hand over mine. He said, "Are you God sent?" I told him,"Yes! I am an angel coming in the form of a life insurance agent who delivers my promise today. You had appointed me as your agent nineteen years ago and i had to fulfill my promise no matter what happened". 88 thousands were a small amount for him those days but today this 88 brought him hope and respect. I am glad our promise was fulfilled as what we had planned nineteen years ago. This is what i called Dedication and Empathy in our profession.

Merlin Oisen quoted "The winning team has a dedication. It will have a core of veteran players who set the standards. They will not accept defeat".

Bonnie Jean Wasmund quoted "People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did but people will never forget how you make them feel".

Tuesday, July 28, 2009

What do you see here?

Have been collecting pictures and posters for quite sometimes. Some of them are quite unique because they have different meaning in our individual minds. One would have seen the above picture as clean but some dirty minded could have related it as bad. What about you?


Here! You think he is naughty or innocent? Whatever it is, life has to go on and we have to live with the good and bad part of lives.





What are they? Are they graduates? You have to ponder your mind.

Hi! I like to be tickled too!!!

This is one taxi i would like to try. Any female partner interested to team up with me?

The impossible makes possible. If they can we can too....nothing is impossible, if we try hard enough. Right?
Food for thought - "A picture is better than a thousand words".

Monday, July 27, 2009

"HAPPY People are PRODUCTIVE!"

You called it sheer determination or what! They said Happy people are usually productive. The picture speaks it all.

Charles E. Wilson had his words - "The thing that contributes to anyone's reaching the goal he wants is simple wanting that goal badly enough."

Sunday, July 26, 2009

To make a woman and a man happy.


TO MAKE A WOMEN HAPPY....
A MAN ONLY NEEDS TO BE :
1. a friend
2. a companion
3. a lover
4. a brother
5. a father
6. a master
7. a chef
8. an electrician
9.. a carpenter
10. a plumber
11. a mechanic
12. a decorator
13. a stylist
14. a sexologist
15. a gynecologist
16. a psychologist
17. a pest exterminator
18. a psychiatrist
19. a healer
20. a good listener
21. an organizer
22. a good father
23. very clean
24. sympathetic
25. athletic
26. warm
27. attentive
28. gallant
29. intelligent
30. funny
31. creative
32. tender
33. strong
34. understanding
35. tolerant
36. prudent
37. ambitious
38. capable
39. courageous
40. determined
41. true
42. dependable
43. passionate
WITHOUT FORGETTING TO :
44. give her compliments regularly
45. love shopping
46. be honest
47. be very rich
48. not stress her out
49. not look at other girls
AND AT THE SAME TIME, YOU MUST ALSO :
50. give her lots of attention, but expect little yourself
51. give her lots of time, especially time for herself
52. give her lots of space, never worrying about where she goes
IT IS VERY IMPORTANT :
53. Never to forget:* birthdays* anniversaries* arrangements she makes
HOW TO MAKE A MAN HAPPY:
1.SEX

Saturday, July 25, 2009

Red Lavender came to town.

Red Lavender came to town. She is my anonymous admirer who used to write on my comments. From sincere interaction, we became good friends and later we called each other brother and sister. Last night she flew over from Brunei, a neighbouring country of a similar culture and people. One week ago, she wrote to me to inform that she had intention to meet up with my team for a sharing platform. She read the word teamwork on my blog...Teamwork means less me more we. She came to share her experiences as well.

At the airport when i picked her up, i was really excited too because we really had not met before. The trust and belief we developed over from our blogging, certainly built confidence in us to meet. Our senses were strong to identify each other at the first sight of meeting. We talked like brother and sister over so much of topics. She is definitely an adorable, intelligent and a brave lady. I am glad a lost sister is found.

Blogging has gained mileage in me. Through blogging my thought has expanded, i learned more as i researched, i gathered more wisdom from learning with others who commented and i know countless new interesting friends from all over the world. Not only we communicated through the net, today i met my anonymous friend, Red Lavender in person. Yes! Happiness is to make others happy and in turn one would even feel more contented and satisfying. This is the Law of Attraction...when we offer loves sincerely it would attract more loves in return.

Food for thought - "He is greatest whose strength carries up the most hearts by the attraction of his own" - Henry Ward Beecher (1813 - 1887)