Over loved child......

A new born baby is always a joy to the family, especially when a couple just got marry. Seeing their child grow is something to be remembered. From an infant right up till he could walk and talk. Every moment of time spend is never regretful. To them, love is the best they could give to their child. Ahem! Time changes their lives when their baby turns adulthood. The best way for me to illustrate the facts of life in raising our children is... please read the cartoon below. I'm sure you would laugh and agree what you see.
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To all parents -"A father without a rod is no father at all. A father without discipline is no father at all."

Super car salesman......

Today I had a chance to meet a super car salesman. Everyone in the motor car industry would have known him as Randy. He has been working faithfully with his employer, Edran Otomobil Nasional Berhad since the company started in 1985, selling our Malaysian local national car, Proton. And this great veteran salesperson has been selling cars for almost 40 years. Though he has passed his retirement age four years ago, his company still renewed his employment contract because he is still very aggressive in selling. He was proud to review his age as 60 today.

He gave me his prestigious elite company name card which was specially printed in platinum colour. Their company has four tiers class of salesman. They have the white, silver, gold and the highest is platinum, which are all imprinted on their name cards. To be recognised as platinum member, one has to sell more than 150 cars in a year. Randy is one of the few who holds this rank. Last year alone, he sold more than 200 cars beating many who are much more younger than him. Just imagine, one year has 365 days and yet he could sell this amount of car at 200, averaging one sale in two days. I salute to my unbelievable friend.

If you look at Randy who is basically a very simple man, soft spoken and casually attired. I asked him his secret of success. This was what he told me... Be responsible, faithful, loyal, honest and prepare to work hard. These principles of life helps him to build countless numbers of clients and friends who willingly recommend and introduce him for repeated sales years after years. His personal success leads him to raise three equally capable sons, the eldest is a Medical Specialist residing in Australia, the second is an IT Engineer and the third is still studying for his degree. They are all proud of the father for being a super car salesman.

Indira Gandhi said....
"There are two kinds of people, those who do the work and those who take the credit. Try to be in the first group; there is less competition there".

First time in massage parlor....

I love massage and I have been massaging regularly for the past almost forty years. Some people said massage is a waste of time and money. Not me! Massage allows me to de-stess my stress level and maintaining a better blood circulation on all part of my body. In order to maximise massaging, one has to engage a professional masseur or a female masseuse to do the job. I believe I had experienced all types of massage therapy worldwide from Asia, Europe and America. The best and the type I like most is The Thai Massage. A good effective Thai masseuse is one who has qualified with a diploma in this profession. I might not be able to see their certificate to determine their recognition in their field, but by looking at their strong arms and firm hands I will be able to judge their experiences. Never get a young pretty masseuse to massage you because quality of the job isn't depended on beauty but rather by their physical strength and commitment.

Last month I invited a China Man to his first experience in a massage centre. This was what happened when he was lying on the massage bed. Please look at the above posting. No joke! Next time when you go for massage, make sure you face the right direction!

A wife is like a classical favorite car...

Today is HM wife's birthday. HM is one of my school classmate, married for forty years with a wife whom he loves so much. Though they don't have their own child, except one adopted daughter, this couple is still loving and caring as ever before.

I sent him this message... "The wife is like a favorite car - exciting when new; depressing when broken; boring when old and used; but in the end, one realizes 'It's a classic'. HM.. Please relate this message to your wife because today is her birthday. Happy Birthday".

I knew he was happy when he responded.. "Thanks for the 'quotable quote' and today-in- history, will action accordingly and show your sms. Good day to you, and be blessed".

I like this statement too- "My most brilliant achievement was my ability to be able to persuade my wife to marry me" -Winston Churchill.

Difference Between 'Love' and 'Like'

Is liking someone different from loving someone? I believe so! Liking someone is easy but loving someone is different.

These were what I gathered from some good friends.....
Love is self-less. You love a person when you're about to put their feelings, wants, needs before yours. Liking a person is much different, and usually the feeling you get with friends and neighbours.

Loving is being willing to marry them, be naked before each other, having sex, have children, raise children, make love even when child making is not an issue and enjoying it, grow old together and still see the person you married 50 years ago. "Liking" is a little different.

To like: to find pleasant, attractive, to enjoy, to want to have, to feel about, regard, and to be pleasing to/ To love: a deep tender feeling of affection, feelings of intense desire and attraction, the emotion of sex and romance,...I'd say there on two pretty different levels myself.

When u like someone its just a mutual feeling and mostly lust. But when u love someone it hurts every time u think of life without them. your constantly thinking of them with a strong desire.

So when one boy and a girl meet and gradually they become closer, they have to ask themselves this question... They like each other more or they love each other less?

Me! When I first met little darling, she was only liking me as a great friend but today she loves me more than anything else because I have turned this four letter alphabets LIKE to something stronger... LOVE.

In short... Love' means he wants to sleep with you, or perhaps marry you.
Like' means he genuinely likes you, or maybe just your body.

Seven Rules to be happy

Whenever I send mails to my clients, I always attached a special yellow name card for them. On one page is printed with these beautiful lines...

• Seven rules to be happy

1. Never hate


2. Don't worry


3. Live simple


4. Expect a little


5. Gives a lot


6. Always smile


7. Have friends like Robert Foo

Recently I received a reply note from a dear lady client who wrote....

Dear Robert... I also have Seven Rules to 'Happiness' =

1. Do things for others



2. Do not get angry



3. Love all animals



4. Connecting with people (smile)



5. Exercise and take care of your body



6. Noticing the world around you



7. Have clients like Terry Poh

A Pet Is A Lifetime Of Commitment

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Law of Attraction - "The happiest people in this world are those who have the most interesting thoughts" - William Lyon Phelps

Peeing at the wrong place..............

Beware again! This can happen to us at the far end of our lives....

A 70-year-old man went to the doctor's for a physical. The doctor ran
some tests and said to the man, "Well, everything seems to be in top
condition physically, but what about mentally? How is your connection
with God?"

And the man answered, "Oh me and God? We have a really tight bond,
he's so good to me. Every night when I have to get up to go to the
bathroom, he turns on the light for me, and then, when I leave, he
turns it back off." The Doctor was astonished. He called the man's wife and said, "I'd
like to speak to you about your husband's connection with God. He
claims that every night when he needs to use the restroom, God turns
on the light for him and turns it off for him again when he leaves. Is
this true?"

And she said, "That idiot, he's been peeing in the refrigerator! "***