Where do I get those ideas?

One reader I think from India asked me these two questions....

sumukh bansal said...

from where you get all these ideas..:)

July 1, 2012 1:28 AM

 

sumukh bansal said...

actually why don't you get your blog published..

July 1, 2012 1:28 AM

 

Would like to let him know and I like to share with the rest as well...                                                                         

All my ideas were gathered from many many of my dears, plenty of honeys around, handful of darlings and one special sweetheart. They make my life interesting, providing me with humour and laughter all the time. The fun and joy spending together inspires me, the sharing and learning within us motivates me and with their presence unconsciously my mind grows and gains much from them.

I consider myself as lucky and well blessed to have the both worlds. In heart I feel young and be able to learn what the younger generation could do. Being wise in age I could understand much about life which younger people might not. An older man has the wisdom mind but he is totally ignorance in IT and could not express himself in the Internet. He has plenty of knowledge and ideas but no way to share his thought. To the young people who are experts in computer but they lack the knowledge and ideas to share. Me! Oh being that I'm naughty and witty all the time, I could share my endless thoughts to the blogging world. Bottom line is experience counts.

The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched - they must be felt with the heart, Helen Keller quoted. And I fully agreed with her. Today I write and to share with all my beautiful readers from all over the world. I share without the thought of making money or in any kind, but merely to share for others to gain and hopefully they would benefit from my sharing. If it's not of my free blog, I won't have known Sumukh and The World. Knowing you and many other readers are my greatest achievement and I have to let you know my heart do have the feeling of happiness which money cannot buy. Thank you for reading my blog all the time.

Why Men Die First..............

In life insurance premium calculation, the female's premium is always cheaper than the male. In mortality rate,  woman could out live man by six years. They claim that woman is less stressful, more independence, and could look forward to their retirement. Not man! See for yourself please....

What man can do, woman can't! They pick the easier jobs and let the stressful and dangerous tasks for us. Please ladies, love us more then.

A rightful quote -  "The male is a domestic animal which, if treated with firmness and kindness, can be trained to do most things." - Jilly Cooper

PARACHUTE CLUB......​...

Sunday laugh....

Yesterday, with things being a little boring, my wife asked why I didn't do something useful with my time. She suggested I go down to the Senior Center and hang out with the blokes there.  I did and when I saw her this morning, I told her that I had joined a parachute club.

She said "Are you nuts?  You're 65 years old and you're going to start jumping out of airplanes?" 

I proudly showed her that I even got a membership card. 

She said to me, "You idiot, where are your glasses!  This is a membership to a Prostitute Club, not a Parachute Club!" 

I'm in trouble again and don't know what to do!  I signed up for five jumps a week! 

Life as a senior citizen is not getting any easier when you don't wear your glasses !!

Another Example of Unconditio​nal Love....

After a mother chimpanzee who lived in a zoo died, one of the zoo's employees took the baby chimp home to care for it. It never crossed his mind that his dog, who had recently given birth would adopt the chimp and raise it with her pups. Judging by the look on her face at times, she is not quite sure why this particular    offspring has hands to grab her with. 

Now that portrays unconditional love. Something to think about!!!!!

Duo Characters of women.....

Are you aware that women have duo characters? 

When they talk to friends outside, they are so feminine and gentle. If you are one lady who is reading my blog, you might agree with me. If you are the attractive and the sexy one, with your sweet words and a lovely heart, many people would adore you. You could easily capture plenty of secret admirers and some might even fall for you. In the mind of most men, they proclaim you as the most ideal woman to look for. Your entire personality and character is considered as prefect.

Hmmm!! Gentlemen be careful! Women being women, when you are just normal friend to them they could be so nice and sweet to us. Only when they fall for you and later when both become love mate or soul mate, things might change a bit. Love actually has patience but when women are deeply in love, they might loose their patience. As friends they are with us, they have patience but when in love for too long a period they forget the real meaning of what is patient. Their character or behaviour to their loved one could be rude and easily be angered. They no longer has the ear to listen. Instead they dictate and control with their powerful voice and feat. 

Do you think they are aware of these changes in them? I believe they don't! They might not even know that they are at wrong. Unless someone could enlighten them. Or please read my blog for some understanding of woman's behaviour.

For all ladies - "Love is patient & Love is kind".

Good Parenting....

Two of my grandsons are not in talking term. Bryan is 12 and Barry is 8. Bryan being the elder brother seemed bossy, were using his authority to control Barry. Raising his voice and throwing his temper, he found hard to overrule the smart and witty younger brother.

Since they are staying afar from me, I had to talk to Bryan on the phone. I asked him whether he likes his father to scold him or he prefers his dad to talk nicely with him when he faces problems at home. Bryan said he prefers the father to use a softer language. 

I related this true story to Bryan. When my children were young, I only knew how to punish them by the cane. Out of the three common ways (Threat, Incentives & The Heart) to teach my children, I only applied threat all the time. Not doing well in studies, cane. Caught playing outside, cane. Caught watching TV and not doing homework, cane again. Very few incentives were given and though love was in my heart for them, I didn't show it to them. I thought the best way was the big cane cause I was also brought up by the same cane from my adopted parents. There were no motivation and inspiration given and later when I became father myself, I too didn't know how to use them either. So! Now that my children became father themselves, they applied the same method which I was treating them too. Yes! It's tit for tat! And I really regretted it.

I continued to explain... Given a chance to start life again, which I know it's not possible, I would rather apply Incentives and The heart to spur and pep my young sons. I should have spoken softly and gently with emotion to inspire them to study harder. I should have win their heart with my caring heart as well and not just the cane to frighten them. 

Bryan, please do me a favour. If you want your father to change, please don't just scold and shout at your younger brother. I'm sure Barry won't like this arrogance approach too. Try to speak softly when you need his help, and when he is making a wrong, explain nicely with him. If you could make Barry likes you without threat, I will consider you as a winner for the family. By doing so, your father would be impressed with your character and manner. Perhaps he too might change his way of interacting with you guys at home. Though I had failed to be an understanding father but it's not too late to be the most likeable grandfather who understands now. 

People Quotes on Parenting

“The greatest gift you can give to somebody is your own personal development. I used to say, "If you will take care of me, I will take care of you." Now I say, "I will take care of me for you if you will take care of you for me" Jim Rohn

Earn more but pay less taxes......

A couple of years ago, this special friend was only earning $50,000 per year, this person was unhappy. Tax payable was less than $2000 then. Unhappy because the earning was too little.

Last year this friend was earning $200,000 plus, and tax payable is $20,000 now. However this person is still unhappy and the heart is even more painful than ever. Reason... The tax payable is equivalent for paying another house. This person wants to earn more but reluctant to pay more taxes.

I'm just wondering, if one day if this friend is going to earn more than a Million and the taxes are more than $200,000, would this amount blast the  heart! I can't imagine if everyone earns and refuses to pay taxes, how would the nation grows. If one is earning less, is fair for the person to pay less in tax but  when we earn much more, is always reasonable to pay more taxes as well. In everything we do, we have to be fair. Otherwise why termed yourself as God fearing but not law abiding, and have the intention to evade taxes due to the country. As for me, I'm too glad to pay my taxes because is only when I'm still healthy and needed that I could earn and be eligible to be taxed. If ever one day, I don't need to pay any more taxes, that will be the day I am no longer on earth. I hope this great friend could change too.

For my special friend - "When there is an income tax, the just man will pay more and the unjust less on the same amount of income" - Plato quotes.