Love what you do & you will do well....

One of my niece who is 28 is frustrated with her job and had tendered her resignation letter. Today is her last day at work. She told me this is her second employment, and she hasn't found a new replacement yet. Having a bit of time I shared with her my experience.

I hadn't not been working for the past 30 years because ever since 30 years ago when I had found a hobby, I spend my entire present life concentrating on it. Hobby is one's interest when one can enjoy doing it for life and yet won't get bored. Though I hadn't been working for these many years, my hobby allows me to earn enough to take care of me and my family, especially when my children were young then. Through my hobby's earning, I managed to educate and sent all my children to overseas studies. This hobby up keeps my present life's style comfortably and no one controls and decides my destiny. Imagine not working for 30 years and having fun all this while and yet be paid!

My niece was confused and she wanted to know how is it possible!!!

Talking is my interest. Talking is my passion. Selling life insurance allows me to talk endlessly, until I decide when to stop doing it. Others are thinking why I have to work so hard, when all my children are already established in their lives. They thought I should have retired long time ago and enjoy my golden age. Sorry to say, they really don't understand the real meaning of life. My career as life insurance agent is never a work to me, but rather it's a passion and energy for me. Out of this passion, I have so much of fun and excitement. It has never occurred in my mind that I am at work. Rather I am enjoying every moment with it. Seeing my clients is a joy, seeing my client's children grow and getting marry is even more enlightening. Knowing all my clients, who are my great friends now, when they are listening and willing to take my advices, are something money could not buy. How true this quote relates... "The most beautiful thing in the world cannot be seen or touched. It could only be felt in the heart." And Thanks God I have it through my hobby as selling life insurance.

Advising the young lady, I said... "Enjoy your work, and you will not need to work for a lifetime."

Modern Woman.................

Today one of my daughter in law using a new phone's application ( called WeChat ), she sent over some interesting messages. One of them was with this quote....

'Some people are old 

at 18 and some are 

young at 90 ... time 

is a concept that humans

created' 

I like collecting proverbs. I replied her.. My mind is 65 but my heart just turns 35. So! My dear where do I stand now?

She was fast to say.. Young of course!

Next she sent me another greater poster....

Today's Modern Woman

Clean house.

Healthy dinner on the table (at dinner time).

Fit, trim & well groomed.

Works full-time.

Laundry done and put away.

Great sex life.

... Pick any two.

My reply was... "May I have all dear?".

She said... "Haha!!! U more greedy than your son. He chose 2 for wife and 2 for girlfriend".

RF said.. "Good things must not be wasted.  I beat my son then".

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To those gentlemen out there... May I know which two would you pick please for your Modern Woman? Please don't be shy lah.

The Spinster......................

Man cannot live without women but I guess women can live without man. I could not believe until I read a recent news over our local paper with this headline... Woman confirms bacheloret​te status – for life.

A 43-YEAR-OLD woman has took up an advertisement in Oriental Daily, announcing that she will never get married but instead focus on her career.

This is strictly my own decision. It has nothing to do with anybody, Chen Lee Fah said in the advertisement.

There is little information about her in the advertisement.

She merely gave her identity card number, which indicated that she is from Selangor.

Her occupation is also not known.

Chen's advertisement was titled “ No marriage in this lifetime”.

“ I do not want to be troubled by any relationship,” she said in the small notice that measured 6.5cm by 4cm.

“ That is why I am placing this advertisement.”

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P.S. This time I wonder who would provide me with more interesting comments than the last post.

Intelligence might not come with responsibility...

While exercising at the gym inside my club house, came two new young male members. I believe they are  university students. The way they spoke with an American slang, let me guess they could be our local children who came home for their vacation break. They look like rich family children with a strong intelligent personality. As they were pumping those irons, dumbbells, short and long iron bars, and various weights were all thrown across the floor. Since they were seriously working on the weights, I moved further away and instead ran on the treadmill. One hour later, I could see they were packing their belongings and were preparing to leave the gym. As they were moving out, they just left those weights and irons on the floor without putting them back to the original places. 

I was very disturbed by their manner. Before they could reach the exist, I stopped them for a moment. I said.. "Young man! Have your finished?" One of them replied as Yes. I continued, "If you had done your exercise, please put back those used items where you had taken them. This is our club's rules & regulations."

Reluctantly they both turned back to pick up those dumbbells and placed them at the appropriate place. I could see many other heavy weights and irons were still on the floor. And I knew they both were not happy with my instruction. As they passed my way, I gave them my good thumb's sign with a smiling gesture for them. They left without a smile.

Morale of the story: They could be very intelligence but without responsibility, they had lost my respect for them. This incident could almost confirmed that one might have the intelligence, might not have a full sense of responsibility. Intelligent people are usually prideful and boastful. Intelligent person has the ability to learn but seldom they apply what they have learned. 

Forgotten to relate this part. Non of the other gym members who were there and who had also seen the happening, took the effort to pause these youngsters. You know what? They could be smart to see the wrong of them, but they didn't have the guts to approach and speak their mind. Being smart and not having courage isn't smart then. Smartness is the ability to apply what you had learned. I'm not intelligence but I think I have a little smartness, plus a lot of braveness and courage. 

Food for thought -

"It is easy to dodge our responsibilities, but we cannot dodge the consequences of dodging our responsibilities" - Josiah Charles Stamp quote.

NASA's prediction​......

I just read something interesting....

US scientists  predict Universe change, total blackout of planet for 3days from Dec 23 2012.

It is not the end of the world, it is an alignment of the Universe, where the Sun and the earth will align for the first time. The earth will shift from the current third dimension to zero dimension, then shift to the forth dimension. During this transition, the entire Universe will face a big change, and we will see a entire brand new world......!

The 3 days blackout is predicted to happen on Dec 23, 24, 25....during this time, staying calm is most important, hug each other, pray pray pray, sleep for 3 nights... and those who survive will face a brand new world.... for those not prepared, many will die because of fear. Be happy, enjoy every moment now. Don't worry, pray to God everyday. There is a lot of talk about what will happen in 2012, but many people don't believe it, and don't want to talk about it for fear of creating fear and panic.

We don't know what will happen, but it is worth listening to USA's NASA talk about preparation.......

Whether it's true or not, better be prepared. No panic, stay calm, just pray..... !! Remember to smile more, love more, forgive more... everyday.

Better avoid traveling during December.

Listen to the master's explanation  below:

This talk  was delivered last year (2011).

My Personal view:  "ISN'T IT NICE & FORTUNATE FOR  US TO

      EXPERIENCE SUCH A WONDERFUL AND

      RARE NATURAL PHENOMENON DURING

      OUR LIFE TIME IF THE NASA'S PREDICTION

      TURNS OUT TO BE TRUE ....... !!! "

You will laugh endlessly......

They said vulgar words aren't acceptable on blog. Yes! But one word you have to listen to laugh out of your pant. According to Rajnish this one word is the most sweetest in the English language. And yet some who commented lately were furious over my application on this special word.

I had joined in the Soundcloub and had converted Rajnish's clip into a pleasant recording for you guys to witness. Listen for yourself and see whether you like it. I'm sure you would laugh and be entertained by him. I'm naughty but I consider these are all clean naughtiness which won't harm our souls. Happy holiday in Malaysia.

I am back again my friends.....

Hi everybody. So nice to come back again after a short break. During this period I do learn something and also to confirm what I had learned and today I have to relearn again.

As I had spoken before, our world comprises of the good and evil forces. They are unbreakable and have to be linked together, otherwise you and me won't be here in the first place. A good man cannot cheat because he will feel extremely guilty if he does it. And a bad person would find it difficult to be honest. The good type of people gain their energy by having a good heart, while those who are bad live happily by not playing sincere. The polices and lawyers would not survive if there are no criminals, and no thief could live when everyone is also criminal to him.Whether we like it or not, man comes by many characters and faces.

I remembered when I was a child our entire township was controlled by gangsters. You can call them as hooligans too. In order not to be disturbed and harassed by them, all the shop owners had to pay protection money to the gang. In our local dialect we addressed them as Sam Seng, who are equally intelligent type of people. They spoke well, tough and had super brain. Today though these gangsters are no longer in operation, they still exist in our world. They are even more intelligence, educated and brave. Last year my personal email was hacked, and my blog which was linked to it was also being taken away from my hand. Thanks God! Google assisted me to retrieve it. Now! My posts were being humiliated, condemned and criticised. By whom? Good readers won't do it but the Sam Seng would. Good readers appreciate my sharing. After all no one pays me. I write everyday because it's my passion and to me sharing is part of happiness. For what reasons why Sam Seng put so much effort to degrade me. I really don't need to know because the fact is... Evil always are there to cause unnecessary trouble to the good. They just could enjoy themselves for seeing me suffering in pain and shame. BUT! I have to tell this sole Sam Seng that I too enjoy playing along with him. He makes my blog more interesting and I'm also learning how Sam Seng reacts as well. I only wish he darn to reveal his true identity. Why attack a man who could face you in the open, when you know who he is while you hide under the mystery. Since you write so well and think so intelligently, be brave and wise to share your mind too Sam Seng. 

The last post was a very meaningful one, where I saw who were my true friends. Wan, thank you for always stood by me. Michelle I love your comment, it was very encouraging. Shirazi first time seeing you here. MdKhan, Sam Seng cannot break me lah. Thank you to Brandon and Gypsy who darn to speak their mind. Really do not know who Anti Anonymous was but you were sharp to reveal the retarded Sam Seng who tried to fool all of us at first. Thank you so much Anti Anonymous. You guys were the one who asked me to continue to write and the one who encouraged me to lay off for good is no other than Sam Seng himself. How can I drop off  so easily when passion and love are so strong in my heart. Sorry lah Sam Seng! You have to work harder to suppress me. Otherwise join us then. Ok?