Small key opens the big door!

Today is my good friend, Simon's birthday. I took the opportunity to send him this text message, "Specially to Simon...Smile, its the key that fits the lock of every body's heart. Keep smiling coz today is your birthday. Happy Birthday and have fun".

Though Simon was busy, he replied, "Thanks for your greeting :) Small key opens the big door."

Yes! I like his tag line, "Small key opens the big door!" Simon is a successful real estate agent, who has the passion to sell properties. He had sold countless number of apartments, houses, bungalows and villas. Whether the houses were small or huge, each home had a big door or entrance to be opened with a small key. The key could be small, comparing to the sizes of the houses, but the tiny little key allows the doorway to the house where comfort and pleasure lies. The small key gives hope and value to the owner of these homes. Its small but opens the heart of every family. The key to success is in our hand.

As a naughty friend to him, i sent another message to him later. I wrote, "Yess! Also small dick opens a big heart for the pussy. Right?" I am sure Simon being a smart gentleman would understand my tag line as well. In case, any readers might not understand, please don't be shy to ask.

Food for thought - "Continuous effort - not strength or intelligence - is the key to unlocking our potential" - Winston Churchill

The smiling crippled girl.

This is amazing………

If this doesn't touch you and move you, I don't know what will. The power of the human spirit is shown at its mightiest by this one little girl. I salute her. Qian Hong Yan lost her legs in an accident. Her family in China are poor and couldn't afford prosthetic legs, so she uses a basketball to help her move. Qian uses two wooden props to drag herself, and never complain, even though she has worn out six basketballs. She attends her class. She always smiles. Always cheerful. Be gratefull with what you have. Extraordinary

The smiling crippled girl. Qian Hong Yan lost her legs in an accident.

Her family in China are poor and couldn't afford prosthetic legs, so she uses a basketball to help her move. Qian uses two wooden props to drag herself, and never complains, even though she has worn through six basketballs.

She attends her class..........

She always smiles..............

Always smiling......................................

Always cheerful.................................................

Always positive. With your help she is now able to afford a pair of prosthetic legs.

Smile always. Be grateful with what you have.

Roses are for smarter women.

Gentleman out there! Do you prefer an intelligent or a smart lady? I admire the intelligent one and love the one who is smart. Intelligent lady is usually outspoken, ambitious, independence, egoistic, demanding, dictating, aggressive and not entertaining. They tend to be more of taker than giver of lives. Their brains lead them to success and personal recognition.

Smarter ladies are more attractive in look. They know how to draw the attention of men by their witty charm. Their smiles and twinkle of their eyes would capture men's heart. Including mine!

Their bra's line and one unbuttoned shirt would stir the thought of those naughty men. On their own, they speak their mind but when they are with their men, they play without their mind. They are smart to let the men to lead and control. The men speak and they listen, their ambitions are to encourage the man to be successful, their tender care and concern melt the heart of man, they let the brain of man to dictate and control, they feel safer and comfortable to be protected by man, and his success is her glory. Yes smarter ladies are more of a giver than a taker.

Thanks God! Little darling is a smart woman who has the right attitude of life. She is clever to love the man she loves.

To those smart ladies - "The fragrance always stays in the hand that gives rose" - Hada Bejan

Intelligence verses right attitude.

Someone asked, "Is intelligence important in selling life insurance?" Not necessary because right attitude works better than intelligence alone.

Intelligence is an abstract concept whose definition continually evolves and often depends upon current social values as much as scientific ideas. Modern definitions refer to a variety of mental capabilities, including the ability to reason, plan, solve problems, think abstractly, comprehend complex ideas, learn quickly, and learn from experience, as well as the potential to do these things.

On the hand, if one has these attributes; honesty, competitive, positive attitude, persistence, patience, hardworking, integrity, humility, sense of humour, drive, determination, confidence, responsible, motivated, communicator, organized, listener, pride, empathy, single-minded, decisive, belief, goal oriented, learner, enthusiasm, common sense, detail master, dependable, dedicated and loyalty....nothing will fail him to be a successful life insurance agent.

The above thirty attributes are all purely attitudes which you need not learn. Because they are already in our mind. "The main reason a person achieves, keeps and performs well in a job is totally dependent on his attitude and not just on one's intelligence alone."

A calmness & understanding mind.

A story worth reading & sharing..........

A boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage. They were a loving couple and the boy was the gem of their eyes. When the boy was around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle open. He was late for office so he asked his wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard. His wife, preoccupied in the kitchen totally forgot the matter.

The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle fascinated by its color and drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages. When the child collapsed the mother hurried him to the hospital. He died. The mother was stunned. She was terrified how she was going to face her husband. When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child, he looked at his wife and uttered just five words.

QUESTIONS :
1. What were the five words ?

2. What is the implication of this story?

ANSWER :

The husband just said 'I am forever with you Darling' . The husband's totally unexpected reaction is a proactive behavior. The child is dead. He can never be brought back to life. There is no point in finding fault with the mother. Besides, if only he had taken time to keep the bottle away, this would not have happened. No one is to be blamed. She had also lost her only child. What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband. That is what he gave her. If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would be much fewer problems in the world. 'A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.' Take off all your envies, jealousies, unforgiveness, selfishness, and fears. And you will find things are actually not as difficult as you think.

MORAL OF THE STORY..

This story is really worth reading. Sometimes we spend time in asking who is responsible or whom to blame, whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know. By this way we miss out some warmth in human relationship.

Food for thought - "I have always observed that to succeed in the world one should seem a fool, but be wise" — Baron de Montesquieu

Are you a gentleman to women?

I was once asked by some male friends why most women like me so much. My replied was, i am a gentleman to all females i meet, be they old or young. A gentleman is one who is gentle, well manner and considerate with high standards of proper behaviour, especially towards woman.

One of my golden rule is, i will never allow a female companion to pay meals and drinks we take together. I make sure the bills have to be settled by me personally. To me, it's always an honour and pleasure to have a chance to dine and drink with women. Their companionship and get together is already a pride to the man. This is what i called a gentleman for the ladies.

From the religious point of view, woman has 99 things to be satisfied, whereas man is only ONE. A gentleman would try his level best to buy and fulfill the needs of the 98 for the ladies. In doing so, the gentleman will definitely get his ONE only need from his female admirers. The one need for man is the trust from women. Are you just a man or a gentleman?

Food for thought - "A true gentleman is one who is never unintentionally rude." - Oscar Wilde

Over 60S.

From the American Association Of Retired People

Questions and Answers from AARP Forum

Q: Where can men over the age of 60 find younger, sexy women who are interested in them?

A: Try a bookstore, under fiction.

Q: What can a man do while his wife is going through menopause?

A: Keep busy. If you're handy with tools, you can finish the basement. When you're done you'll have a place to live.

Q:i How can you increase the heart rate of your 60-plus year old husband?

A: Tell him you're pregnant.

Q: How can you avoid that terrible curse of the elderly wrinkles?

A: Take off your glasses.

Q: Seriously! What can I do for these Crow's feet and all those wrinkles on my face?

A: Go bra less. It will usually pull them out.

Q: Why should 60-plus year old people use valet parking?

A: Valets don't forget where they park your car.

Q: Is it common for 60-plus year old to have problems with short term memory storage?

A: Storing memory is not a problem, Retrieving it is the problem.

Q: As people age, do they sleep More soundly?

A: Yes, but usually in the afternoon.

Q: Where should 60-plus year old look for eye glasses?

A: On their foreheads.

Q: What is the most common remark made by 60-plus year old when they enter antique stores?

A: "Gosh, I remember these!"

SMILE, You've still got your sense of humour, RIGHT? Luckily i am not at this age group yet. Last year i was 36 and this year i had turned 35.