Bright women really are brilliant in bed.

While flying across the South China Sea, I read an article..."The True G-spot" written by Judith Woods. Having a naughty mind like me, the word G-spot excited my thought and I am sure you too who is reading my blog now.

She said..women have protested it for years, but a male scientist has finally discovered that the most important erogenous zone on the female body is, indeed, the brain. Intelligence, not beauty, is the deciding factor when it comes to enjoying sex, which will come as a great relief to clever-but-oh-so-plain girls everywhere.

A study has revealed that women endowed with emotional intelligence have superior sex lives because of their skill at expressing themselves and empathising with their partner. Researchers at King's College London asked 2,000 female twins about their sex lives and concluded that brains are the key to bliss in the boudoir.

Bright women apparently have twice as many orgasms as their peers, which of course makes perfect sense; the ability to bark, "No, for heaven's sake, not like that!" in four languages is pretty much a guarantee of great sex on an international scale.

High levels of emotional intelligence also make it easier for women to fantasise during foreplay. Perhaps the reason why emotional intelligence women have more fun is because they intuitively choose the best (or at least, most biddable) partners, who are imaginative, appreciative and can, at a push, chat a bit while in flagrante delicto.

A woman with a soupcon of common sense can spare herself a lot of grief, boredom and misery by applying her intelligence to weeding out life's roues, rogues and rotters.

Whether it's due to IQ or straightforward female intuition is a moot point, but Don't Sleep With Someone You Wouldn't Give A Job To is a fairly sound ground rule.

But i would aver that having a blast in bed has less to do with intelligence per se than confidence, of feeling loved, or at the very least, liked.

And a shrewd woman, a woman with self-esteem, will only sleep with a chap who likes her

Wow!!! That's great news! Little darling of mine must be an intelligent lady.

Something all of us should note - "Beauty, you see, may get a man into bed. But brains will ensure you know what to do with him (and vice verse) when you get there".

Sex is my name!

Little darling requested me to post it for others to laugh as well. Sex is her name. Make sure you call her right. In case, if you can't read the small print, click on to the page for enlargement.

Dumb & stupid

Christ is my nephew in Singapore and he is only eleven. While walking along in the mall with him, he asked me this interesting question. "What is dumb and what is stupid?" I allowed him to explain. With two examples he related; 1) A teacher sets a question to a student. What is 1 plus 1? The student stares at the teacher without uttering a speech. Christ said the student is dumb. Next.. Teacher asks what is 1 plus 1 again to another student. This student replies three. Christ said this student is stupid.

That was a very good illustration of 'dumb & stupid'. Immediately i could recall the past events of the yesteryear. I was only in the early twenties when a lovely girl confessed this statement to me. She said, "I miss you! I need you and I want you!!!" I was blinded in thought and lacked the power of speech at that moment of time. Yes! I was really 'dumb' in every aspect of a man. Came later when I met little darling, she was attractive and a brave lady she is. On a first trip i invited her for a holiday which she promptly agreed. Instead of booking one room for two, i got two rooms for each of us. She asked me why two rooms. I remembered one plus one equal two. She thought i was 'stupid' as i was too innocent for being slow to learn or to understand the feeling of woman. Am i dumb and stupid? You have to guess!

Is this true - "there are no dumb questions-only dumb answers". — Marshall Loeb

Life is like a boomerang.

This story i related many times..

An old man wanting to go for a weekend fishing trip, called excitingly his son to join him. The son being an active successful professional answered, "Dad! I am sorry! I have an urgent business meeting this weekend too and i cannot join you. Let me give you five hundred dollars so that you can spend on the trip".

The old man was sad. Recalling his past, he remembered when his son was a boy, he too had requested his father to join him on many fishing outings. As a responsible and hardworking parent then, he told his son, "Son! I am sorry! Dad needs to work this weekend and i cannot come along with you. Please have five dollars and you have a good time with your friends. Ya?"

He was sad because he had no time for his growing boy and the son did what the father had thought him. Should the father had given the quality time to the son, today the son would have given the same treatment to him now. "You harvest what you sow in the first place".

I told this story to my son and daughter in law, and hopefully it would also benefit those who are raising their young families like them.

My belief - "Life is like the return of a boomerang you throw".

What makes you think she is special to U?

Barry, one of my grandson who is only five, made me laughed when this was related to me. One day while having a slight argument with one of his class kinder garden female friend, he raised his childish voice to her, "I don't want to friend you anymore!" Immediately she cried furiously without stopping. In our adult mind we thought; "Had the little girl took him as her special boyfriend to feel so sad, when he rejected their friendship at that moment of time?" My Gosh!! Are they in love at this age?

Next question pondering... "You are getting closer to another person of the opposite sex, when is the time you consider to be special for each other?"

Fifty years ago, if a girl could accept a man's date once, she would be already considered as a special girlfriend to him. If she continued to accept his dating, marriage would be unavoidable. Thirty years ago, holding a girl's hand was like confirming his love over her. What about today? Is a kiss means anything? Or hugging and kissing signify serious love? Or when the boy says "I love you" is a confirmation that you are my special now? Or committing over a sex making session declares the formation of a love relationship?

I am curious! Tell me if you are not afraid, especially those who have the experience in love & romance. How and when .... you consider as both are seriously in love?

Interesting words - "Everyone admits that love is wonderful and necessary, yet no one agrees on just what it is."

Singapore here i come.

Upon reaching home from Vietnam, I drove down to Singapore yesterday. Is quite awhile i had seen my few young friends over there. They are my lovable grandsons who naughtily address me as 'kok kok', in Chinese it means bigger brother. No joke! They do call me as brother, which makes me at par with them.

This morning when I went out for my early breakfast around the market place, I could see the smiles and joy of the Singaporean. The vibration is still as strong as ever and i don't think the current world's melt down as any effect to the people. Comparing to the Vietnamese who has more younger people, Singapore has more older foes to care for. Strongly i believe the Vietnamese produces more children than the Singaporean. Though Singapore is small in size with a much lesser population than Vietnam, the per capital income here is relatively high.

Singapore has advanced well ahead of most neighbouring countries because they too had been working very hard for many decades. Currently with a brainy nation of intelligent people, they are successful and well recognised throughout the world. Today Singaporean uses their mind more than their physical, whereas the Vietnamese depends mainly on physical strength than anything else.

With what I see and learn during these two trips; to be successful in life one has to be intelligence and to work hard. With intelligence you work smarter to gain the extra miles, otherwise you have to work harder and longer to see the far end of the result.

I am sure all would agree to this - "Success is sweet and sweeter if long delayed and gotten through many struggles and defeats." - Amos Bronson Alcott

Trip to Ho Chi Minh City, Vietnam.

I just came home from Ho Chi Minh city, Vietnam, a business and a fun holiday destination. This is my third trip, the first was ten years ago when I remembered the whole city was flocked with bicycles only. Five years later when I revisited it, i could see fifty percent of bicycles being replaced with motorbikes and a handful of motor vehicles, mainly lorries and trucks. Today the whole city is jammed up by bikes and vehicles. I could see males going to work with coats and ties, and sexy ladies moving on their bikes to work or leisure. Yes! In the economical point of view, I am sure The Vietnamese had done well. Though their country is still under communist rule, their standard of living has improved tremendously due mainly through their hard work and discipline.

Of all the tourist spots I visited, I highly recommend the Cu Chi Tunnels at the Iron Triangle. This is a vast underground tunnel system, secretly dug out by hand by the troops of the "National Liberation Front", and continued to expand as the fighting raged above ground. They were built during the struggle against the colonial powers that were very strong. The tunnel extended three levels deep, with secret entrances, guard rooms, trap for attackers, headquarters, rooms for surgery and wounds, kitchens, escape tunnels to the Mekong river, etc. Total length is more than 200 km. They were dug by using simple farming tools and many hours hard-work.

To prove to myself than I am still young in heart and physically strong, I took the challenge to craw through a 100 meters tunnel pitch dark with no turning back. Tell you what! Don't try if you are too tall and big framed in size, especially those have weak heart. I felt...I was dead at mid way, blinded and breathless. I could imagine how painful and courageous the Vietcong had fought their war.

As I was travelling around the city, I admired those loving couples riding on their bikes or scooters. My guesses were; woman not holding man's shoulder while riding at the back could be just normal friend, woman touching man's shoulder could be husband and wife, woman holding man's abdominal part could be they are in love and woman folding both hands around man's chest while head over his shoulder...she is telling the whole city..."I am madly in love with him!" At that moment of time, how I wish that rider was me and the lady behind was my little darling.

What is hardwork! "The results you achieve will be in direct proportion to the effort you apply." - Denis Waitley