Are you a fun person to be connected?

Was a relaxing Sunday, when i had nothing to do. Many would have gone to the Church or some might be still lying on bed. With a creative thought, I sent out this message to some of my dears, honeys, darlings, and a sweetheart to ponder their mind. After all i am a naughty young man who always like disturbing special friends.

My message was written as; "The Lord said..Fun girls would go to heaven because they are happy and they could make other people happy too. Good girls might not go to heaven because they are happy only within themselves. What are you my child?"

Non who replied me the same day said they are good girls. I like these replies, "Aiyo Abang, sure I'm not those too, am the naughty one", "..am a nice and fun girl with a lot of blessing from my sweetheart, and " ...I am Wah Kor's fun girl."

I really do not know how they termed what is 'Good' girl to them. Perhaps good girl is one who is honest, kind, responsible and hardworking. All my special lady friends are good girls, but they have the extra personality of looking forward to fun and laughter in life. They cheer along those they meet, they won't let you feel bored, they motivate you with humour and they make you comfortable all the time. Good isn't enough. As a fun person, i think you are more rounded in nature. To all my darlings there, you make my life more interesting and happier.

I like this quote -“Live life fully while you're here. Experience everything. Take care of yourself and your friends. Have fun, be crazy, be weird. Go out and screw up! You're going to anyway, so you might as well enjoy the process. Take the opportunity to learn from your mistakes: find the cause of your problem and eliminate it. Don't try to be perfect; just be an excellent example of being human.” - Anthony Robbins quotes

Brain verses Mercedes Benz.

My last son Caldwin met a well dressed life insurance lady agent lately. He was very captured by her flashy Mercedes Benz she drove, and she is only twenty six of age. She told him she is only two years in the business and has qualified as member of the MDRT league.

My son asked, she is new in the business; Can she really afford the Benz!!!

This was what i told my puzzling son. There are two ways to conduct our business effectively. Either you use money or brain! When you have no brain yet, but you have the courage to throw money to flash over your entire personality, the chances are people would like to meet and talk business with you. In my case, God has blessed me with a creative brain. My brain allows me to speak with power, enthusiasm, love and plenty of wisdom. Clients deal with me because of my words, and the above lady sells because of her expensive car.

Son! The choice is yours. Dad prefers to use the brain rather than an artificial brain of an expensive car. The brain lasts longer than a man made vehicle. To those who aren't brave to spend or has no wisdom of thought, they might even find it difficult to sell in this challenging world. Whether you like it or not, these are true facts of life.

Food for thought - "Money is good for bribing yourself through the inconveniences of life." -Gottfried Reinhardt.

Can He or She be trusted on bed?

I have a wisdom quiz for my readers today.

Question One:
Is freezing out there, and there is only one available heated room with two single beds for the nite. There are two different guests wanting to have this warm room for themselves. One is a seventy years old man and the other is a twenty years old beautiful girl. Do you think the man and the girl be able to sleep comfortably well in this room for the nite?

Question Two:
Same situation. The only different is, the elderly guest is an old lady of seventy and the younger person is a handsome boy of twenty. Are they going to be comfortable to sleep together in this room?

Would appreciate to those who are brave to offer some interesting wisdom comments, please let us know your age and sex. Awaiting for your response.

Jerry Rubin quotes - “Don't trust anyone over thirty.”
Oscar Wilde quotes - "One should never trust a woman who tells her real age. If she tells that, she'll tell anything."

I like to be beaten by my love.

Love is blind. You need tolerance to be blinded in love. I admire this man who has all the tolerance and patience to love his woman. Read the following true story and you would understand why love is blind....

Beaten by his wife — and he loves her

A PHOTOGRAPHER in Chongqing, China, puts up with his wife beating him daily — all in the name of love.

Nanyang Siang Pau reported that the couple even have an agreement to avoid the beating from getting out of hand.

“We agreed that the beatings should not be too severe, failing which she will have to return to her parents and stay with them for three days,” said the young man, who was only identified by his surname Zhang.

Zhang said his wife had loved martial arts since she was young and that when they first met at a party, his friends had teased him about becoming her “punching bag” after marriage.

Recalling the first time he was beaten up by his wife, Zhang said he had teased her about her hairstyle.

“But despite all the beatings, I still love her,” the daily quoted him as saying.

So! Where do you stand? For the gentlemen there; Can you take the beating and scolding from your partners? To the ladies; Do you enjoy seeing your partners crying in pain out of your love? I do when i am beaten in pain on bed.

Food for the heart - "Anyone can be passionate, but it takes real lovers to be silly." ~Rose Franken

She is too naive.

This morning i read a disgusting news on our local newspaper. The title is.. College student duped into having sex with ‘medium’ .

KUALA LUMPUR: A 20-year-old college student who sought a medium’s help to end her streak of bad luck ended up having to sleep with the man.

She approached the medium, known only as master Choy, in April on the recommendations of her friends as she was worried about her well-being.

The 50-year-old medium told her she would not be able to get rid of the bad luck unless she had sex with a married man.

After some persuasion from the man, who is married, the girl agreed to have sex with him.

“He told me I had to sleep with a married man to get rid of all the bad luck,” she told a press conference at the MCA Public Services and Complaints Department here yesterday.

Before having sexual intercourse, the medium told the girl, who is pursuing a degree in nutrition at a college, to strip naked and pose for some photographs.

She realised that she had been cheated a few months later when her luck had not changed and worse, she had contracted a sexually transmitted disease from him.

She went back to the medium and threatened to expose him but he slapped her and warned that he would post her nude photographs on the Internet.

The girl claimed that the medium issued a death threat against her should she decide to lodge a police report.

“I am getting a lawyer now to file a case against him,” she said.

MCA Public Services and Complaints Depart­ment head Datuk Michael Chong advised the public to be wary of bogus mediums.

My personal view...How could a college student be so easily duped by a total stranger??? My conclusion, she could be intelligence but not smart. Education could teach one to be knowledgeable. Is sad, education doesn't teach us to be smart and wise. An innocent student might expect the world to be kind, she assumed everyone is honest and sincere. She is definitely a very naive person who is lacking in the worldly experience. In schools, colleges and universities, they could be teaching us everything you like to learn, but they could never teach us the wisdom of life. Perhaps it is one subject, we have to experience ourselves in this world. To survive in this uncertain and unkind world, we have to be intelligence and smart too.

Food for thought - "The stupid neither forgive nor forget; the naive forgive and forget; the wise forgive but do not forget."

“Knowledge is gained by learning; trust by doubt; skill by practice; and love by love.”

“Clear thinking requires courage rather than intelligence.” - Thomas S. Szasz quote .

Two Horses. There is a field, with two horses in it

From a distance, each horse looks like any other horse. But if you stop your car, or are walking by, you will notice something quite amazing. Looking into the eyes of one horse will disclose that he is blind. His owner has chosen not to have him put down, but has made a good home for him.

This alone is amazing.

If you stand nearby and listen, you will hear the sound of a bell. Looking around for the source of the sound, you will see that it comes from the smaller horse in the field.

Attached to the horse's halter is a small bell. It lets the blind friend know where the other horse is, so he can follow.

As you stand and watch these two horses, you'll see that the horse with the bell is always checking on the blind horse, and that the blind horse will listen for the bell and then slowly walk to where the other horse is, trusting that he will not be led astray.

When the horse with the bell returns to the shelter of the barn each evening, it stops occasionally and looks back, making sure that the blind friend isn't too far behind to hear the bell.

Like the owners of these two horses, God does not throw us away just because we are not perfect or because we have problems or challenges.

He watches over us and even brings others into our lives to help us when we are in need.

Sometimes we are the blind horse being guided by the little ringing bell of those who God places in our lives. Good friends are like that... you may not always see them, but you know they are always there.

Please listen for my bell and I'll listen for yours.

And remember...be kinder than necessary- everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.

Live simply,
Love generously,
Care deeply,
Speak kindly.....

Habeeb Kareem was the friend who shared this beautiful story to me. Thank you Habeeb.

Love him unconditionally.

Farijah has been in love with her European boyfriend for almost three years. She claimed non of the Malaysian males she had met so far in her life could be better than her current lover. He is romantic, loving, caring, kind and love her so much. I was a bit jealous and upset when she told me that, because she said Malaysian man makes lousy mates. She could be blind herself, as she never knew there was one perfect ideal man always stood in front of her and yet she did not notice at all. Ayoh! Thats Robert Foo lah!

Life is always unpredictable. Farijah had a confrontation with her boyfriend when they were discussing on spiritual belief. Although he came from different nationality, race and culture, he is prepared to accept all changes and adjustment but on the spiritual belief it was a very sensitive issue. Over their long term marriage plan, he refused to be converted to her faith. Out of anger and frustration, the lady left the man the next day with a broken heart.

By chances we met recently and i could see her sorrow and unhappiness through her voice and eyes. With my confidence approaches, she revealed her aching heart to my listening ears. In short, i related to her the three forces of life. They are Spiritual, Knowledge and Wisdom. She was intelligence with knowledge but lacking in spiritual and wisdom. Knowledge alone could bring arrogance and self esteem which might be rejected by those whom she encounter. If only she has wisdom, she could be wiser and be more thoughtful to her partner. A wisdom person could understand the spiritual path clearer too. Unless she is wise, she would never win her man again.

I am glad Farijah took my advices. This morning she sent me this message; "Hi dear, so you are still in Singapore. Just wanting to tell you that 'Talk" we had in your office about using wisdom has impacted me so much. I realised how much and how badly i need love in my life. I got it from Rxxxxxx and i am not willing to live a life that's so lifeless... Worst of it to throw it away. So i used my wisdom, spiritual then knowledge to reach this path of making the best of what i have. I started to have nice feeling yesterday and i am so happy he feels the same too. A big hug for you dear, luv you and thank you very much for being there for me."

I could hear her happy voice and i know she is in love again.

To my dear Farijah - “The greatest gift that you can give to others is the gift of unconditional love and acceptance.” - Brian Tracy quote