6 PRINCIPLES OF LIFE

A good wise friend Ranjit Singh shared these with me & Makes so much sense........!!!!!! The last one is so important to note, spend it on yourself, you deserve it!

6 PRINCIPLES OF LIFE.

.No point using limited life to chase unlimited money.

.No point earning so much money you cannot live to spend it.

.Money is not yours until you spend it.

.When you are young, you use your health to chase your wealth;when you are old, you use your wealth to buy back your health. Difference is that, it is too late.

.How happy a man is, is not how much he has but how little he needs.

.No point working so hard to provide for the people who have no time to spend with you!!!

Camilla & Charles.

Have a laugh...

Camilla bought a new pair of shoes for her wedding which got increasingly tighter & tighter as the day went on.

That night after the festivities were finally over, she and Charles had retired to their room at the palace.

Camilla flopped on the bed and said 'Please remove my shoes darling, they are killing me.'

Ever obedient, the Prince of Wales attacked her right shoe with vigour.

But it would not budge. 'Harder' yelled Camilla. 'Harder?' Charles yelled back, 'I'm trying darling! But it's just so bloody tight!' 'Come on, give it all you've got ' she cried.

Finally when it released, Charles let out a big groan, and Camilla exclaimed 'Oh God, that feels so good.'

In their bedroom next door, The Queen turned to Prince Phillip and said, 'See, I told you she would still be a virgin with a face like that!'

Meanwhile back in the other bedroom Charles was attempting to remove the other shoe when he cried out 'Oh god, darling this one's even tighter'. At which point, Prince Phillip turned and said to the Queen: 'That's my boy, once a Navy man, always a Navy man!'

The art of meeting people.

Selling tips...

Is 'drinking & smoking' the fastest way to connect into the business circle? Talking to most younger people, they said yes. According to them clubbing is the fast way to net work yourself. Socializing in the night by drinking helps to build relationship with their clients and friends. Whether is true or not, i think it's debatable and depending on the individual liking.

I am not a drinker and i dislike smoking, and yet i have been selling for the past 40 years without having to entertain my clients and associates by such habits. Give me a prospect or someone i haven't met before, with my heart and mind, i am sure to make him like me instantly. A sincere heart plus a creative mind are my tools to connect to people. I don't need the cigarette to start a conversation, neither do i need a glass of beer to cheer a soul. Just allow me a short moment, my soothing smiles would open your eyes, my senses could see through your heart to feel whether you are happy, my words come with wisdom to enlighten and strengthen your mind, my humour would make you laugh until you won't forget me and before i leave i would make sure my name is implanted in one corner of your heart.

Yes! I don't need the drink and cigarette to build relationship with others when one has the sincerity to meet another person. What about you?

Food for thought - “Quality is never an accident; it is always the result of high intention, sincere effort, intelligent direction and skillful execution; it represents the wise choice of many alternatives.” - William A. Foster quotes

Healthier men want more sex for more years.

Some facts you should know...

(CNN) -- Healthier men, no matter their age, are going to have better sex more frequently and desire it more often than healthier women.

And a healthier sex life could mean a longer life.

That's according to a paper written by University of Chicago researchers that was published Tuesday in the British Medical Journal. While the supposition that men think about sex more than women isn't new, the paper's findings have wider implication for attitudes toward public health and how patients respond to doctors' advice, said Dr. Stacy Tessler Lindau, an associate professor of obstetrics and gynecology and geriatric medicine who spearheaded the research.

"If you are a man diagnosed with diabetes or high blood pressure and I tell you that you need to lose weight and take medication, and I can say the benefit is five extra years of sex life, you might be more inclined to do what I tell you," she explained.

STORY HIGHLIGHTED
1. The drive for sex among men doesn't diminish with age.
2. For women 60 years and older, sex drops off significantly overall, study says.
3. Study: Women whose partners are still alive are having just as much sex as men

I think is true - "Sex without love is merely healthy exercise" ~ Robert Heinlein

Can water be affected by our words?

Amazing! Can water be affected by our words? Dr. Masaru Emoto, a Japanese scientist, believes so. And he has proof.

Dr. Emoto took water droplets, exposed them to various words, music, and environments, and froze them for three hours. He then examined the crystal formations under a dark field microscope. And he took photographs.

The results were totally mind-blowing.

Here’s a photo of ordinary water without any prayer spoken over it. The molecular structure is in disarray.

The photos below is water after the prayer was said. It’s simply breathtaking. (I now have a great respect for praying before meals! More on this later.)

Here’s water exposed to classical music and folk dance music. Looks much better, right?

Next, Dr. Emoto stuck a piece of paper with these words: “You make me sick. I will kill you.” Here’s how the frozen water droplets looks like under the microscope

Below is how water looked like with the words “Love” over it. The difference is amazing.

This is Polluted water…

This is water from Lourdes , France . Utterly beautiful, right?

Wait A Minute— Aren’t You Made Up Of Water?

Yes! 72% of your body is made up of water. Imagine how your words affect your own body. When you say, “I’m a failure,” or “I’m hopeless,” or “I won’t get well,” imagine how these words weaken your health.

Make a choice to say the best words out there. Say often, “I’m wonderful,” and “I’m beautiful,”. It’s not only water.

Dr. Emoto also experimented with cooked rice. He placed one cup of cooked rice in two airtight jars. On one jar, he wrote, “I love you,” and on the other, “You fool.” Everyday for 30 days, Dr. Emoto would say these words to each jar of rice.

After 30 days, the “I love you” rice was still white. But the “You fool” rice was so rotten, it was black. How can you explain this?

Just as a side note: When I was a child, my mother taught me to pray before meals. Now I realize it wasn’t just a nice thing to do. When I pray over my meal, I know a material transformation takes place in the molecular level of the food that I pray for. I say, “Be blessed,” to the water and food on the table—and I expect it to be blessed.

Yeah – that’s why we always wish others well on birthdays, anniversaries, graduation, festivals, examination days, etc…. BE BLESSED, everybody!!!

On a more serious note : (from an article written by a scientist in response to skeptics debunking Emoto’s studies ) :

The Journal of Alternative and Complementary Medicine which ran the Emoto article also contains topics that are not mainstream medicine and science, and include a practices like acupuncture or meditation that lie outside the main areas of medical science.

The Emoto article ran as what they called a "PhotoEssay", and was not written up in conventional scientific style, but was much more informal. The label and the style strongly suggest that the article was not peer-reviewed by conventional scientists, but was simply published as received.

May the blessing of almighty be with you always.

Miscommunication

In our day to day's life, effective communication is vital important. The way we speak and write has to be correct. Otherwise misunderstanding and miscommunication could occur unnecessary.

Today i was supposed to meet up with one intelligent lady. Before i left the office, i received this message from her, "My father brother wife passaway. They are bc today."

I was shocked to read the first sentence. Is she telling me her father, brother and wife all passed away at the same time due to an accident. The next sentence made me guessed and pondered further.

I replied her, "You mean your uncle's wife passed away, and your father and brother are busy today because of her death!!!" She said "Yes!" For a minute i was frightened, but her YES relieved my fear. The typical Chinese refers uncle's wife as "father brother wife." So if she wants to refer her nephew in that sequence, most likely she might write "My Father Brother Wife Son". Thanks God! She wrote to another typical Chinese here who understood her.

Food for thought - "Remember not only to say the right thing in the right place, but far more difficult still, to leave unsaid the wrong thing at the tempting moment" - Benjamin Franklin.

Two love birds that talk & listen.

There is a proverb which says "One who loves to talk and one who likes to listen keeps a lasting relationship."

Faat and his wife, is a loving couple i have known for 25 years. Since they had shifted home without me knowing, i had not seen them for the last 17 years. By chances, i got to meet them again when the husband called on phone to my company for some enquiries. Immediately i visited this family last week for a reunion. Upon meeting these friends with joy and happiness, i could see the man has grown to be wiser and the lady is still young and beautiful. He is 60 and the sweet wife is 55.

Faat and wife have been married for 39 years. They have six children and 12 grand children. From their faces, i could see they are still so much in love. While talking to me in their comfortable home, they were not shy to hold their hands together most of the time. They spoke with laughter and had much to share.

One of the question i asked, how did you both keep the marriage so exciting and interesting. The lady openly said, my husband never failed to make me laughed with jokes almost everyday. We slept only at 4 in the morning last nite because we were talking endlessly on bed, and his stories and jokes kept me listening without falling asleep. I was amazed! They are married for 39 years and are still going strong in love & romance. See! The above quoted proverb is true and worked marvellously. He talks and she listens whole heartily.

Yes! Faat & wife have certainly demonstated well in this thought - "The most important thing in life is to learn how to give out love, and to let it come in.” - Morrie Schwartz quotes