Women are Special..!!!

To all the guys who read this.....please read fully and understand..............
To all the girls who read this............ An excellent forward......please read fully..... and forward to the boys you know..........

This is a beautiful article:
The woman in your life...very well expressed...

Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but you should marry her with these facts as well.

Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are;
Who is earning almost as much as you do;

One, who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because she is as human as you are;

One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your Sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements.

One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;

One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family, name

One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen

One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more, and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother, a wife, even if she doesn't want to; and is learning just like you are as to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you;

One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities;

Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't, simply Because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise

One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met;

One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important, relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some and trust her;

One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it.

But not many guys understand this......

Please appreciate "HER"

My philosphy of life starts from vapour.

Life is just like the creation of vapour in gas phase from the open sky. As it settle down, i lay as to form myself as the morning's dew sitting gently on the tree leaves on top of the mountain forest. The constant blow of wind, pushes me down to the tiny stream below where i meet more of my types, the misty dew of early lives. As i start to learn to swim along this icing cold stream, i ponder where my destiny might end.

From this small stream, i am channelled into a river which flows faster and stronger. Some of us are diverted to side distribution, the canals and lakes which serve different purposes of life. I am delighted myself because i could see so much as i gather my force as i drift along the bigger river. By the distance i pound over the rapid river, i reach the delta where the water is a little salty now. At the delta of the river mouth, i give the opportunities for people by the hundreds to live and survive. There are farmers and fishermen who make a living in this rich area of the delta. The little vapour gas of me, has developed into a larger dimension to serve the surrounding here.

Not just happy and contented over at The Delta, i push myself further to reach the open sea where i have to face the waves and the oceans. Some of them ask, why do i need to go out to the unknown towards the sea. Yes! I am courageous to go, is because out there in the sea is where i control the Seven Oceans of the world. This is where the power and greatness of earth mass is. 90% of our planet is water and without these Seven Oceans life on earth won't exist.

Reaching out into the open sea, and by the natural process, i am once again evaporated into the atmosphere. In theory; Water is transferred from the surface to the atmosphere through evaporation, the process by which water changes from a liquid to a gas. As likewise from a gas i could repeat my life cycle again to serve the world.

Food for thought - "Man cannot discover new oceans unless he has the courage to lose sight of the shore" - Philosophy of Life by Andre Gide

True Love

It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly gentleman in his 80's arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb. He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.

I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him. I saw him looking at his watch and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound. On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound.

While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.

The gentleman told me no, that he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife. I inquired as to her health.

He told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.

As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.

He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.

I was surprised, and asked him, 'And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?'

He smiled as he patted my hand and said,

'She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is.'

I had to hold back tears as he left, I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought,

'That is the kind of love I want in my life.'

True love is neither physical, nor romantic.

True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.

"The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have."

I hope you share this with someone you care about.
'Life isn't about how to survive the storm, But how to dance in the rain.'

My son-in law and vibrator.

AS A WOMAN PASSES HER DAUGHTER'S CLOSED BEDROOM DOOR, SHE HEARD A STRANGE BUZZING NOISE COMING FROM WITHIN. OPENING THE DOOR, SHE OBSERVED HER DAUGHTER GIVING HERSELF A REAL WORKOUT WITH A VIBRATOR.

SHOCKED, SHE ASKED: 'WHAT IN THE WORLD ARE YOU DOING?' THE DAUGHTER REPLIED: 'MOM, I'M THIRTY-FIVE YEARS OLD, UNMARRIED, AND THIS THING IS ABOUT AS CLOSE AS I'LL EVER GET TO A HUSBAND. PLEASE, GO AWAY AND LEAVE ME ALONE.'

THE NEXT DAY, THE GIRL'S FATHER HEARD THE SAME BUZZ COMING FROM THE OTHER SIDE OF THE CLOSED BEDROOM DOOR. UPON ENTERING THE ROOM, HE OBSERVED HIS DAUGHTER MAKING PASSIONATE LOVE TO HER VIBRATOR. TO HIS QUERY AS TO WHAT SHE WAS DOING.

THE DAUGHTER SAID: 'DAD I'M THIRTY-FIVE, UNMARRIED, AND THIS THING IS ABOUT AS CLOSE AS I'LL EVER GET TO A HUSBAND. PLEASE, GO AWAY AND LEAVE ME ALONE.'

A COUPLE DAYS LATER, THE WIFE CAME HOME FROM A SHOPPING TRIP, PLACED THE GROCERIES ON THE KITCHEN COUNTER, AND HEARD THAT BUZZING NOISE COMING FROM, OF ALL PLACES, THE LIVING ROOM. SHE ENTERED THAT AREA AND OBSERVED HER HUSBAND SITTING ON THE COUCH, DOWNING A COLD BEER, AND STARING AT THE TV. THE VIBRATOR WAS NEXT TO HIM ON THE COUCH, BUZZING LIKE CRAZY.

THE WIFE ASKED: 'WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU DOING?'

THE HUSBAND REPLIED: 'I'M WATCHING FOOTBALL WITH MY SON-IN-LAW.

Note: If you are only intelligent, you might not understand the above story. But if you are laughing now and could understand the joke instantly, i am sure you are the naughty one like me. All birds of the same feather flock together.

All desirable things in life.

One my my reader Renuka wrote on my comment two days ago. She said, "Hi Robert, i received a quote from my friend saying 'All desirable things in life are either illegal, fattening, banned, expensive..or married to someone else'. If you have any experience on this, can you write a blog on this?"

Hi my dear, sound interesting your question! I believe all of us one way or another have had experienced all these desirable things before. We ought to blame on Eve for eating the forbidden apple in the first place. If she had killed the snake instead and not eating the juicy apple, all of us might still be living in the Garden of Paradise where no illegal things could have existed. Then you need not have doubts over this question. Right?

On the other hand, as a man myself i have to partially blame Adam as well. He was given everything and yet he was lonesome. The instinct of the first man on earth had the feeling for another soul. In order to please and satisfy this creation, Eve was allowed to be his companion. And that was when all things broke loose, Adam & Eve had to fend for themselves in this place we called as our world.

As far as i am concerned, our world has to live by the two effects of "the good & the bad". The good could not survive without the existence of the bad or vice verse. Meaning, if there is no death, we would not have appreciated good life. If there is no sickness, you would not know what is good health. When nobody get sick, the doctors as playing the good role of life, would not have survived in their medical practices. The thieves play the role of the bad and the polices act the role of good. The smugglers are considered as the bad guys but they need the good guys of the lawyers to save their skin when they are caught. I can continue to relate more of the bad and the good roles of life but whether you like it or not, life has to go on and on. Without these effect of the two forces, the world would not move and life might be at a standstill.

The good and bad forces of life would forever be here but we have the choices to pick the roles. Or you have the choices to select the desirable things you like. When i was younger, i ate all the fatty or junk food but today i have to be selective in eating. A brand new BMW is attractive but i prefer a simple Honda which is much cheaper. I can pick an illegal Chinese sexy Doll to make love but i rather be faithful to my little darling. Life has got choices. Just that, are you wise enough to accept the good or the bad of life. Renuka, please tell me if i am wrong. Okay?

Wisdom man cannot be rich.

Mazuki has been my client since twenty years ago. He is still in his forties but has been getting wiser and clever by the years. I was glad he brought up this statement, "Man with Wisdom cannot be rich."

I had to agree with him totally, a man who has wisdom cannot be rich, but i added on, neither is he going to be poor. A wisdom person is one who always thinks of others first. He gives more than he receives. He is not selfish, not cunning, not sneaky and not shrew. But rather a person with a rich heart to share. I have not seen a wisdom man of the past who was rich and famous. The poorest man on earth are those who have spiritual wisdom. The monk and priest have nothing in possession.

On the hand, to be super rich, one needs to acquire the opposite characters of wisdom. The rich is intelligence with knowledge, smart to gain power and fame but lack the purity of wisdom. A rich and famous person when in sorrow or sadness, sometimes needs the enlightenment and guidance from a wisdom monk or priest. The few words of spiritual wisdom could release the pain of the rich. The rich might have the millions but he cannot understand the simplicity of life. The man who has wisdom might not have the wealth but he has the blessings and wishes from the entire world who knows him.

Now i know why i am not rich but thanks God i am not poor either. My Master said "What the superior man seeks is in himself; what the small man seeks is in others" - Confucius - Chinese philosopher & reformer (551 BC - 479 BC)

Saying i am a single mum causes big problem!

Rinnie is an attractive lady who owes a tutorial centre. She is facing some financial problems and might be closing her once well known educational centre. Students intake is dropping and the various classes income doesn't support the maintenance of this school. As she is my important client, i gave her my ears to listen to all her sorrow lately.

Using our tag line from Prudential, "Always Listening and Always Understanding", i could excess the actual problems hidden. Rinnie is a single mother with a young daughter of seven. Though she is 32 years old, she looks younger than her age because she is sexy and attractive. A self-made person, single handily she managed to build the school herself without support.

The problems started when she introduced herself as a single mother whenever her daughter was around her. She was truthful to reveal her real marital status as a divorcee with a child to support. She thought by not lying, it might be good for her. By presenting herself to be a single mother, she assumed it would attract sympathies and respect. Yes! Respect was there because she is a teacher. However the words of "single mum" attracted unnecessary attention and exposure. All males, between the age of 24 to 40 were all out to tackle and court this beautiful lady who isn't prepared to fall in love yet. During the last two years, there were countless gentlemen, some even younger than her were attempting to win the heart of Rinnie. Without she realising, those men wasted much of her pleasurable time and created a lot of misunderstanding and fuss along the way. To add salt over her wound, she told the unexpected problems to all she met within the school. The innocent young principle didn't know that no parent would like their children to be taught by a problematic teacher. Through words of mouth, the classes were getting lesser, simply because the parents were losing their respect and confidence on her. That's when the school tutorial income fell.

A friendly advice to my important friend. Never introduce yourself as a single mother when you don't intend to attract another Male's approaches. Single mother to man is.. she is available because the man had left her. I suggested to Rinnie, she should tell a bit of white lies. No harm to say, "i am married and my husband is still around." A married woman is seldom being approached intentional by another single man. The status of her being still married, should shut the thought of most dirty minded men. Next! Rinnie should not reveal her personal problems openly to everyone. Nobody likes to deal with an unsuccessful person, especially when you are a professional. I hope these suggestions could assist and correct the path way for her.

Food for thought - “Successful people aren't born that way. They become successful by establishing the habit of doing things unsuccessful people don't like to do. The successful people don't always like these things themselves; they just get on and do them.”