Aging......

 How true...

Aging:
Eventually you will reach a point
when you stop lying about your age
and start bragging about it. This is so true. I love
to hear them say "you don't look that old." 

First you forget names,
then you forget faces.
Then you forget to pull up your zipper...
it's worse when
you forget to pull it down. 

Positive versus Negative....

A good guy try to encourage a bad guy to be good. Don't ever walk out of the shop without paying, he told the bad guy. Reluctantly he paid. However upon reaching home, that night the bad guy couldn't sleep. He felt  stupid for paying when he could have cheated the shop. By playing the role of bad, he enjoyed the thrill for not paying. But the minute he tried to be honest, he lost all his confidence and fun.

Next... The bad guy asked the good guy to try once to act as bad. Walk into the shop, take whatever you like and disappear without paying, he told the good guy. Out of curiosity, the good fellow did what was told. With fear he attempted, and stole many things from the shop without paying. That night he could not sleep at all, he was trembling, worried and scared. By cheating, he lost his confidence, and felt so shameful and guilty of himself.

Moral of the story: A bad person cannot gain energy from trying to be good, and neither a good person can gain the rightful strength from trying to be bad. They both live in a different world. They survive by their own forces, the bad has to live with the negative and the good has to live with the positive instead. Whether you like it or not, that's the facts of life.

Food for thought - "There is little difference in people, but that little difference makes a big different. The little difference is attitude. The big difference is whether it is positive or negative" - W Clement Stone quotes

Teacher is the most noble profession of all.

YCLim is one of my respectful client. He has been teaching for the past 10 years, ever since he left school. The minute he was granted the training to be a teacher, he never look back. As in his heart he has all the passion to teach. With so much of dedication and commitment in this career, he was recently promoted to be a Senior Assistant in a Primary Government Chinese School. Not many teachers of age 32 could be given this opportunity and I'm pretty sure Lim would have the chance to become a headmaster one day.

Nowadays not many males would opt to become teacher. They feel teaching is a feminine job, and the prospect of making big money is very limited. The name as teacher is not so noble as before. Most young people prefer to seek their future in the corporate world, where status and position are more recognised. However not Lim again. He felt that teaching is a passion and he loves to see children grow. I told Lim... Of all the professions, I respect the most is a Teacher. Without my teachers, I would not be what I am today. They taught me how to read and write, they made me to understand what is moral, they helped to mold my character, they corrected my behaviour, I learned from them what's the important of discipline and they taught me all about the world we live in. Though they might not be around any more, but deep down in my heart all my teachers remain in my thought as long as I live. Each time I meet any teachers, be they of any races or nationalities, I will address them as Teacher or in Mandarin I called them as Lau Cee. 

To my great friend YCLim, I am honour to be your agent and a friend. With teachers of your special kind who has so much of devotion and love over this teaching profession, you certainly would be able to help our children to face a better future.The future of our country depends on our children of today. Lim, thank you for being a teacher.

Specially for Lim - “Teaching is the essential profession, the one that makes all other professions possible.”

Touch of love.....

Out of the five senses that God gives, Touch is the most intense. Though sight, hear, smell and taste are important, touches are soothing with feeling of niceness. Look at the above picture to see for yourself. The both lioness have no hand but they still need the touching of their bodies to distress among themselves.

This second picture shows a cat and an antelope. Though they are of not the same kind, their affection shows the touching is soothing as well. 

The third picture are the loving birds. They can't talk like us and their ears are not so powerful like human but yet they are the most faithful creature on earth. Whenever they are together, they touch each other often enough for love and understanding.

If animals and birds need those touches, I believe human needs more. If you are one person who isn't happy and are not contented in life, I think you are short of this one vital human sense of touch. Go out and seek your love. Touch someone you like. You will be surprised how the touching of another person would change  your entire emotion and feeling.

This is one unique touch I called as Embrace Touch of Love

I found someone's iPhone....

Two months ago, my youngest son lost his iPhone while being entertained in a karaoke outlet. He was  tipsy after a few glasses of beer, and forgotten where he had left the phone. He tried to call his phone number but the person who took the phone had apparently locked it and had no intention to give it back. 

Few days later my eldest grandson was robbed away his new iPhone while travelling in a taxi in Shanghai. He couldn't believe a taxi driver had intention to cheat an innocent child. Repeatedly he attempted to call his number, but the daring cab driver refused to respond. Gone was his phone he loved so much.

Two days ago while on a short holiday at a resort, I found an iPhone while walking around the playground. It was the latest model with bright red frame. The phone was locked and I couldn't call out to reach it's owner. With little darling with me, we both waited at a nearby restaurant for the phone to ring. True enough! A short while later, the panic owner called and I told him that the phone was with me. Immediately not too long, a handsome young man appeared in front of us. He was too pleased to see us with his lost phone. He wanted to pay for our meals which I declined. I told him he didn't have to do any favour, except be more careful in keeping his phone. The phone might not be expensive, but the information in it is definitely very costly to loose. He left with many thank you said, and promised he would be more careful in his way of life.

Moral of these three stories: 

The first... By being not honest to return, founder of the phone felt excited and happy. 

The second... By cheating, the person felt great and thrill to achieve his motives.

The third... By being honest, the giver felt happy and joyful.

Conclusion: Everyone of us needs different energies to satisfy our inner self. The bad cannot survive as good, and neither the good can live to act as bad. So whether you like it or not, we have to face the reality of life as   good and evil are inseparable. 

Buying Condoms.....

Have you ever purchased condoms over the counters before? I'm sure if you are a normal healthy person, whether is a male or female, you must had experienced it before. Right?

Well! Tell me, whether you feel good buying them, or feel proud buying them or feel shy and embarrass about buying this little rubber safety needs. When I asked little darling how she feels. She said it's a man's job and not the women who should be buying them. She wasn't telling the truth! I believe as a lady, she is shy to buy and pay over the counter, especially when the cashier over the counter is a male. The stare of him might be sensitive when he prices over those packets she is buying. What brand she is choosing, why so many packets. The brand she picks might depict the standard of income she belongs to. The number of packets might reveal how heavy is she on sexual needs. Consciously her personal side of life might be known!

What about me? When I was a teenager, buying a condom needed guts and courage. However showing the condoms to my friends was a hero. Later when I got marry, buying condoms was my routine. I preferred to buy when the counter was managed by men. Some how or rather, I didn't feel comfortable buying through a female cashier. A good understanding cashier, normally packed the condom packets fast and neat to avoid unnecessary inconvenient and embarrassment to the customers. Now! At my current tender young old age, buying condom is a joy to me. I feel like a hero again. Because if one isn't healthy and normal, you would not have the chance to buy such requirement in your daily life. Thanks God! He still gives me the vitality of strength to live.

Looking for my perfect man....

Jenny is a 50 years old lawyer and Dr Hajit is 60. Both are my clients who are very successful in their profession. Except that both are single ladies. Their clients admire their success and achievement but deep down in their heart, they are actually unhappy professionals because they are lonesome without a family. Recently I had a chance to speak to them, when they poured to share their sorrow with me. Yes! They might have the financial success in hand but they lack the physical support from a man. Though they are very independent ladies, they still have a weak spot. At times when they cried, they wished there was a man who could provide his shoulder to lean on. Sad as they are, they feel empty with sorrow and cry in silent alone.

Asked them why they don't look for a male partner or a companion? Their answers were... Not easy to get the right ideal man! They had been thinking of this special man for years, and yet they could not locate him.

My advice to them was... Most men are afraid of too intelligent women. Intelligent ladies are difficult to cope with as intelligence comes with pride, boastful, egoistic, possessive, arrogance and temper. Men prefer a less intelligent lady. Men like smart ladies who are more understanding, caring, kind and loving. 

For Jenny and Hajit, I suggested to them that whenever they happened to meet an ideal man in front, please play dumb and stupid. Perhaps you stand a better chance to win over these men. 

How true this saying - "Some women can't find a GOOD MAN cause they're too busy looking for a perfect man"