Be a positive energy giver.

Positive energy can be created when good words are spoken with meaning. I used to tell all my friends, especially those lady admirers who love talking to me, please give sincere compliments to those you meet. Those few who understand me, we help each other by energizing ourselves with sweet conversation whenever we meet or even on phone.

I had one good short chat over the mobile phone this morning with one lady friend.

She; "Hi dear! how was your day?"

Me; "Good! But with your sexy voice, you make my day even more cheerful...honey."

She; "Really! U do know how to make me happy with your nice words."

Me; "Yes! I do coz I am always blessed by God to have attractive and intelligent lady friend like u around."

She; "I called u bcoz I had lost a sale. However having such a knowledgeable friend like u with us, I know u will inspire me again."

Me; "Please don't be disheartened by one failing case. Just take it as a learning lesson and u will improve on the next round. After all, I know u are a smart lady who will overcome this short fall."

She; "Thanks dear. You are a great motivator."

Me; "I am glad you take my words. And I only help those who deserve it...like u the most understanding lady I know. Bye now!"

Although the conversation was short and precise, each session was added with compliment of words for each other. I consider each compliment given as one positive energy point gained by the one who received. The more points given and received, powerful positive energy is created within then. She was happier after spoken to me and I also felt a feeling of accomplishment. We are both positive energy givers and we make our lives more pleasant and meaningful. These are true friends who understand the facts of life; To Give and To Receive.

Quote from The Prav World, "Friendship isn't how you forget, but how you forgive. Not how how you listen, but how you understand. Not how you see, but how you feel. Not how you let go, but how you hold on!"

Success comes with undivided love.

As I was leaving the office, I met two young energetic lady agents in the lift. They gave me a broad friendly smile. One was quick to ask me this interesting question, "Mr Foo, how did you do your lifetime MDRT? Can you share about your success?" In fact I was in a rush to pick my car from the basement. Nonetheless I still like to share some ideas to these keen learners. I responded, "Before I answer your question, tell me. Are both of you Christian believers?" They replied, "Yes! we are." I continued, "Good! Do you strongly believe in God and are happy with HIM." With eagerness they said,"Certainly!"

As I was walking to my car and they were following me, I explained, "You believe in God with devotion, sincerity, faithfulness, honesty, unselfishness and offering unconditional love. To HIM whom you have never seen or touch, except you can feel and sense but yet you are prepared to offer your undivided Love, cause you believe in HIM totally. If only you could also offer the same unconditional and undivided love to your friends and clients whom you definitely can feel, touch and see, magic will happen to your entire lives and career. You have to believe the Law of Universe when love has got miracle. God in return gives you HIS blessing. Similarly your career will offer you success".

Although it was a short statement, my two engrossed agents were greatly enlightened with my sharing. I hope they would apply my thoughts and succeed in their endeavors of this career in selling life insurance.

Quote from Dale Carnegie, "Are you bored with life? Then throw yourself into some work you believe in with all your heart, live for it, die for it, and you will find happiness that you had thought could never be yours."

Add humour into inspiration.

When I was still in school, this was what written to inspire the poor; "I cried for I had no shoes until I saw a man who has no leg."

Things has changed. Today we add humour to our words for inspiration; "I was sad till I saw a man without two arms, shaking his shoulder and jumping with joy. When I asked him why he is happy? He replied, I am not happy, my balls are itchy. I can't scatch it!! Ou!"

Both phases have the same inspiration but the second one makes you laugh and to remember. Coz sense of humour is important in life.

My first encounter with a bi sexual.

The http://www.facebook.com/ is an interesting place to network and gather new virtual friends. Quite recently an oversea name was trying to befriend me. He posted with a young boy photo which I responded. This was the following written chat that was transpired between both of us.

Me: Are you truly that young?

Him: No! I am a bit older than that. Where are you Robert?

Me: I am still on Planet Earth. Have not flown out to the Space Station yet.

Him: Are you bi-sexual? Like woman and man too? ( I could not believe those words)

Me: I adore females. Without them, man will not survive. Thankful to God for creating Eve. I love those who are attractive and intelligent. Similarly I like smart gentleman who can think. May be like you!

Him: I can think but I also adore you. You want to talk to me or can I talk to u?

Me: This is my number xxxxxxxx.

Not long this young man really called on my mobile phone, an experience I had never in my life encountered. I really would not know exactly whether he is a he or a she. His voice was definitely a male who spoke softly and gently. I believe he was playing a role of a female when he spoke with me. He claimed after seeing my photo posted on the site, he loves me and wants to have sex with me. My portrait had attracted him with admiration. He was not shy in any way when he asked many of my personal details. Out of curiosity, I gave all that he wanted to know. Like my age, height, sexual needs, sexual strength and whether I like man or woman. According to him, he loves man who could excite and have sex with. The feeling is just like man for a woman.

Although I had spoken only two times with him, I began to learn something strange and new, which was never in my mind before. Certainly I was uncomfortable communicating with him but to learn and explore new territories, I took this challenge. Now I can sense that the world has many types of love relationship. To our normal way of thinking, we expect to love within a male and a female, but in actual fact love has got no boundary or obstacle. After all love is just the feeling and expression of our mind. To our society, he is termed to be at wrong or not normal to love another man, but to him it isn't wrong to love a man when his desire for male is greater. His thought and feeling are beyond his control and nobody could change that for him. Perhaps these are the unspoken and unwritten words of love from another dimension which most people don't see. I know this new friend would be calling me again and I hope to learn more from him/her.

Aristotle said, "Happiness depends upon ourselves."

Too much knowledge with money can change your character.

Irene has been in the life insurance business for a few years. She was doing pretty well at the beginning. However this year, she realised she isn't moving and sales are badly affected. When she came to seek my advices, I noticed that she had a inner pride which deter her progress. I told her that everyone we meet, we have to make them feel important. She was doing it, when she was a rookie agent but not now, when she knows her work better.

Many agents after working for some years fall into this working habits. At the beginning, they were naive, were prepared to be humble and did whatever were necessary to achieve success in their careers. Along the journey, they acquired knowledge through many training classes. Hard work definitely showed results, when they saw more income plus recognition were awarded. Without them realising, gaining knowledge and earning higher income, changed their character and personality. They developed pride and self esteem inwardly. Their expectation on others are much higher now and they gradually lost their humbleness of the heart.

Irene is caught under this situation when she is reluctant to be friendly to those who are unknown to her. Her pride is holding her back when she is not prepared to offer the sincerity of kindness. Not forgetting in our life insurance business, what we sell are mainly love with care and concern. Without care and concern, nobody will buy life insurance from us on a regular basis. Kindness of the heart is the gate way to staying in our career. I sincerely hope Irene and those who are at lost in this career be reminded that what I wrote here are the truth. You started extremely well and I am sure you will be even better if you keep to your original character and personality.

Please take this phrase of meaning, "To be kind is more important than to be right. Sometimes all a person needs is not a brilliant mind that speaks but a patient heart that listens."

Don't take life for granted.

Are you aware that countries that have four seasons, work harder than those who enjoy all year round with the same one season? A young intelligent lady, Carol highlighted to us with logical explanation.

The four seasons, summer, autumn, winter and spring look tough and difficult to live with, compare those like having one season all year round. The fact is, people who reside in places where they have to bear with the four seasons, have to plan ahead in advance for every year. Each season has a different need and requirement. The winter is cold when they have to dress heavily in clothing. They have to stock sufficient food to last the period. Come summer their lifestyles differ again. In order to survive, they have to be strong minded, they plan ahead and work hard at every opportunity.

Countries with no season, tend to take things for granted. Their lives are easier with one set of clothing for all year around. They need not think of the cold or hot weathers. Their food are available at all times when they need not plan to keep. Without realising themselves, they tend to be lazier and work less harder. Is a fact, countries with four seasons are more developed than countries which are not. Because the former works harder than the later. These are true facts of life again. So! Don't take things for granted wherever we are.

Spoken by Anthony J D Angelo, "Wherever you go, no matter what the weather, always bring own sunshine."

All men need many women in their lives.

During a recent discussion, a lady friend brought up the issue of current woman's power and strength. At earlier stage, she was soft spoken but on this subject she was aggressive because it was related to herself. To support her claim, I added with this statement, "Yes you are right! A man can't live without a woman but most women can live without man."

I thought I was good at this subject, until I was caught unguarded when another senior gentleman throw me this challenge. He said, "Not true! All men need many women in their lives. We can't live with just one woman." At that moment all eyes were on him. He explained, "A man needed a mother at the beginning. The sister was there to accompany him. Later he married a wife to love him. Before he die, a female nurse was there to support him as well."

He was totally right. It was our mind that played dirty that we thought likewise. Without all those women, perhaps man will never go far in life. Now I have to agree to this wiser man thought; a man definitely needs many women to complete his life cycle.

The greatest phrase spoken by Thomas Edison, "My mother was the making of me."