Wednesday, March 03, 2010

Sad & Sorrowful is different from Sad & Angry.

What is sadness? Is a feeling of the mind. If you are sad, you feel unhappy, usually because something has happened that you do not like. In my course of selling, I had seen the many feelings of people. I don't think sadness comes with happiness but for sure sadness has two types. Either you are sad and sorrowful or sad and angry.

When your friends are sad and sorrowful, it's easy to approach them. Allow your shoulder and ears and most likely they would heal their sadness. However be extremely careful with those who are sad and angry, their minds are violent and their thoughts are always unforgiving. Any unwanted words and statement might disturb amd aggravate their emotion further. Is never easy to console a sad angry person because that person speaks faster than you could listen. Offering your shoulder to an angry man or woman is of no use. Perhap the best way is to keep silent and just listen to him or her. Time is the only remedy to deal with such situation.

If you are still sad & angry, this might help you - “Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that. Hate multiplies hate, violence multiplies violence, and toughness multiplies toughness in a descending spiral of destruction...The chain reaction of evil...hate begetting hate, wars producing more wars... must be broken, or we shall be plunged into the dark abyss of annihilation.”
Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.

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