Thursday, November 12, 2009

She doesn't pick my calls and i am so sad.

Falling in love is nice but to hold on with the love needs a lot of patience and understanding. All lovers have to go through a path of pleasure, anger, hatred, argument, conflict and pain. Most young and immature lovers with little understanding of romance could easily fall into an unpleasant confrontation when misunderstanding occurred. They might not know how to overcome it.

I have a good male friend who just called me for some advices. His message stood as "If a man calls a woman and she doesn't want to pick up or switch off the phone, does that mean she doesn't want to be disturbed or she needs a space for herself...or she hates him..."

With that statement i guessed he must be quarrelling with his recent found girlfriend. Right?

My reply was "She hates you, she loves you, she doesn't know what to say to you, she is too angry, she is also happy that you called, she is confused, she wanna to cool down herself, she needs space, she has her ego/ pride... all kinds of feeling."

My inexperienced friend asked further "Does the man needs to continuously call and text her, and to show he cares and is serious to her, or just give her the time to relax her mind."

My next reply "Yes and no! Yes..continue to text and to call. Text sweetly and speak calmly because it shows you are serious. No.. don't buck her, give her space, let her cool down because if both parties are angry, sometime we might say the wrong thing and it might hurt her more, which you don't mean to be. Well! Its tough ya to be in relationship."

Please don't laugh! This is what he wrote finally..."Ya lah! Headache and heartache because half of my heart has given to her. That's why it's hurt. Half gone and half is with me..can't work and think at the moment."

My story speaks it all. Don't take love for granted, if you have one...for goodness sake, please appreciate it and make the best of what you have. Otherwise you might stand to have a lovesick.

To my little darling - "I love you not only because of who you are but also because of who I am when I'm with you."


5 said...

We were given: Two hands to hold. To legs to walk. Two eyes to see. Two ears to listen. But why only one heart? Because the other was given to someone else. For us to find...

Robert Foo said...

Hi 5,

Please don't wait any longer. Go out and search for that lonesome heart.

Robert Foo said...

Hi Deng Deng,

You are totally right. I am sure my friend should know by now. Thank you.