Friday, April 23, 2010

Are you earning less than your wife?


When a man earns lesser than his woman, its not good for the couple. In the course of my work, i had seen countless unhappy men who are victimised by their mates. Man should be responsible to the family but when he earns so little, expecting the wife to shoulder the finance at home, he has to be controlled and be dictated by the lady of the house then.

As women love so much of life, and yet her man could not pay for her needs and wants, she might as well do without man. The fact is, as man needs so badly for woman, and could not satisfy her financial requirement, definitely affects his pride and self esteem. Unless the man is much softer than her, there bound to have conflicts and quarrels at home.

Man by nature leads and woman by creation to follow and be obedience. This could only be possible if the man is capable to provide and support. I am so sad because males are getting weaker and females are growing smarter and stronger. Look around you, most professional ladies of today are successful and wealthier than the not so aggressive males. Is high time man has to be awaken. Otherwise, we won't be able to stand tall when we walk with our ladies.

Food for thought - “The superior man blames himself. The inferior man blames others.” - Don Shula quotes

3 comments:

Arc Lamp said...

There are many myths on relationship, marriage, men and women. Any couple can be happy with any circumstances, if they are willing to be happy with each other. Life is lots of about learning lessons and use it well.

Love
AL

Robert Foo said...

Hi my dear,

I learned alot from you as well. Hope to chat with you more.

Arc Lamp said...

looking forward to it... :-)