Wednesday, September 15, 2010

Marry to someone you feel comfortable.

Alice is floating on cloud nine because she has fallen in love while on a short holiday abroad. In all, she was with this lucky man for only ten days, when he proposed to her. Without hesitation she agreed and they intend to get marry by end of this year.

I asked Alice why she trusted so much on her foreigner's boyfriend whom she knew in such a short time. She said he is a very religious man who won't betray her love. Sounded very illogical to me! Though love could be blind but one still needs time to understand the inner of the other partner. More so to be permanent mates to each other for life together.

I threw Alice a simple question. Everyone farts and farting is very personal. In medical term, it is normal for a healthy person to fart with an average of 14 times a day. There are the silent fart or the smelly fart or the blasting fart, depending on the individual mood. Now the question is... if you happened to be in the car alone with your 'soon to be husband', and your stomach seems a bit uneasy and you need to fart soon. Are you going to keep quiet to release your silent fart or to acknowledge your smelly fart by telling him?

Ooop! Alice was blushed. I knew she was embarrassed with my unexpected question. I told her.. See! you don't even know what to do because you are still not comfortable with him yet. Unless you are sure and feel comfortable with him, that's where trust comes into place. Trust needs time to be earned. Religiously incline isn't enough, to understand each other is more important.

Alice wasn't angry and i hope she won't rush into marriage with someone she isn't comfortable yet.

To all love seekers - "Love is like a Rubik's Cube, there are countless numbers of wrong twists and turns, but when you get it right, it looks perfect no matter what way you look at it."


RL said...

Hi Bro,

Hope Alice dont rush things for herself...take time to grow this relationship...

Robert Foo said...

Hi sis,

Alice is like you, an innocent Malay who hasn't fallen in love before.