Thursday, July 21, 2011

To hunt and be hunted....

In the Animal Kingdom, the male has to hunt and the female has to be hunted. By their instinct, the stronger males seduce and possess most of their females. Also the one attractive female might capture the interest of the arrogance male.

I believe in human we react the same as well. All normal healthy gentlemen have the interest to eye at ladies. Whereas all ladies apply their beauty to attract their ideal men. In principle the man hunt and the woman in waiting has to be hunted.

Why am I writing this interest? Because recently I have a niece who is temporary staying in my home. She is in the third year studying in the university from another states, and currently on training doing her practical with a marketing company in my town. She has been working with this company only for a month, and getting very popular with most of the colleagues. Though she has no vehicle to move around, especially going to work in the morning or coming back, there are many male colleagues who are too keen to chauffeur her. The father from a small town is a bit worried over the daughter here. As I'm the older brother in law to him, I assured him that he need not be too worrisome, as his child is a grown up who is smart enough to know what is best for her. More so I'm here to protect her in any eventuality.

I can't blame those male colleagues who are so willing to assist and to fetch my niece because she is beautiful and attractive. The instinct is there to hunt and to be hunted. Now is a matter of who is the winner who could win the heart of this lady. The winner is one who has the knowledge and the understanding of the woman. This is the process of life that nobody could escape. I had passed through that stage of life too.

For the man, you have to learn how to hunt with your mind. “My boyfriend used to ask his mother, 'How can I find the right woman for me?' and she would answer, 'Don't worry about finding the right woman- concentrate on becoming the right man.'”

And for the woman, you have to learn to be attractive by being hunted. “To be happy with a man you must understand him a lot and love him a little. To be happy with a woman you must love her a lot and not try to understand her at all.” - Helen Rowland quotes.


Anonymous said...

What wisdom?? Love n understanding must come together. Like sugar n spice! Men are not robots, programmed to love w/o understanding?? There is a simple saying, " there is no greater gift to make a man happy than the gift of a good wife from God" and I believe the converse is as true!

Robert Foo said...

Hi Anonymous,

I totally agree with you, Love comes together with understanding. However before love blooms, one has to seek for it first. The instinct of all normal healthy men wld definitely be identifying and locating his awaiting lady.

In humour... I said Man hunt and the female wait to be hunted. Just a good laugh and please don't be offended.

Thank you for reading my blog.

Wan said...

Hi Robert and Anonymous,
I could not disagree with Anonymous that Love and Understanding must come together.
However, it is just a matter of degree of Love and Understanding that makes the MAGIC happens.
Practically I agree with Robert's quotes....More Love and less Understanding & vice-versa...
Have a nice day....

Robert Foo said...

Hi Wan,

Perhaps I'm wrong but I'm glad this title captured some attention. Love comes with humour is always fun.

Thank you for contributing young man.