Wednesday, May 30, 2012

Why are Divorce Rates so high????


Fifty years ago, it was the sons who could go to the school to study. Most of the daughters had to stay home to  help the mothers. Even those girls who could attend classes, seldom could complete the primary education. The old school of thought was, sons had to be more intelligence than the girls because they had to earn later in life to get settle down with their families. Whereas the girls need not be smarter than the boys. You might think not fair. Right? BUT! The beauty was... There was no divorce or separation among couples who finally got marry. Most husbands and wives remain as to be married till death. 

Now! What happened? I have got clients who just married within a year, are asking for divorce. Before they got marry, they were loving and caring. After a year of staying together as man & woman, they fight like cats & dogs. Solution is separation. So! What is the rationing behind? I guess is... Woman is more intelligence than man currently. Today you could see girls are excellent students, while the boys are lazy and playful. With their academic achievements and constant learning, ladies are more knowledgeable than men today. Most husbands cannot survive alone on their income. In order to meet their families' needs, wives have to seek employment as well. So! When man has to depend partially on woman, especially on their financial strength, woman automatically has their voice and status. Before, woman had to listen to her man. Now, man has to listen to his woman. Otherwise the trouble would begin. 

Moral of the story: For a successful and happy family, the man has to work harder and earn more than his woman. Or better still... earn enough when your wife needs not have to work. Husband earns and the wife spends. What say you, ladies and the gentlemen out there?

Success to me is.. "Earns much and let my wife spends as much as she likes and yet I don't feel the pain".


14 comments:

ගැමියාගේ පත් ඉරුව said...

when considering my country the divorce percentage seems low... i don't know the reason for that but i think it's because our culture...

most of our people thinking virginity of a female is must when they marry..i don't know how to explain this but i would say that they expect their wife's purity from that manner... i heard that some parents are checking that virginity by observing the bed-sheet or some what like that...

so in sri lanka it's not easy to marry after a divorce... so they have to bear all the pain and stay with their husbands....

but when it comes to your point that's true... i mean the intelligence females are really neglecting their husband... most of the divorce cases cause the educational level and the salary...

just imagine girl and a boy fall in love while they were schooling... they keep loving... i must say girl can manage love and studies but when it comes to a boy he always ruin his studies... girl selecting for campus but boy got failed... but it's not a problem yet.but after the marriage they have to face the reality... you know girls are like to be fancy and they shopping like this was the last day of shopping... i think that's the point for the divorce...

not only that but also there are so many other things like cheating.and as far as i know in here the beauty of a girl disappearing and they get chubby so some men lost their interest about them and looking for another one to satisfy them self... i think the concept of having babies just after the marriage also cause for this divorce system...

marriage is like a driving a ship with two captains... without having good understanding each other it will be impossible to sail for their aims... so one have to be listen and be patience.it's just like what your quote says...

education is a human right so the only option is to work hard boys...we are the one who lead our selves to the downfall...

im gamiya

Robert Foo said...

Wow!!! That was a good write up and explanation here Gamiya. Congratulation!

You have the thought and you have to constantly practise to express them out in writing.

Talking and writing... both need skill.

Thank you for the comment young man.

sumukh bansal said...

why not try the other way sir..
let women work and teach the men house works...:)

Robert Foo said...

Hi Sumukh,

Good idea but count me out please!

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