Sometimes love is treated unfairly, when one has got it, she doesn't want it but another wants it, she hasn't got it. I have known two lady friends, who miss the magic of love in their lives. The first younger loving lady is lonesome because she has not found her ideal man yet. Her life is boring and meaningless, except work and work all day. She cries in silence with pain in her heart for the missing part of love. The second lady is a divorcee who had experienced the frustration and sorrow of being loved before. The unsuccessful marriage made her to be a stronger woman who no longer believes in love anymore. Her remark, "Do I need a man now!", when there is a man who madly loves her passionately at present.
For these two ladies I specially write, "Is easy for woman to get man. But is not easy for a woman to get the right man to fall in love". Look at our world, there is no plant, animal, creature, insect or bird that could live alone by themselves. If the first man on earth, Adam could not live alone, no person can live by herself or himself either. Perhaps this is a Law of The Universe with the creation of the two different sexes in order for all of us to survive.
The purposes of having a man is to let him loves you truthfully with all his heart. To love you with patience and kindness. He has to understand, love does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud, it is not rude, it is not self seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. He has to believe, love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. He always has hopes and always perseveres because he trusts love won't fail. This is the type of man, my lady friends should fall in love with. Because Love has got miracle.
I have a romantic poem specially written to all my friends who are in love or soon to be in love again:
May our relationship last forever.
May I sail upon your sea.
May we go through life together.
May there be always be a WE.
May I be your endless sky.
May your breathe my gentle air.
May you never wonder why.
Each time you look for me, I am there.
May we be for each a smile, like the warm, life giving sun.
Yet we are in pain awhile, may our suffering be one.
May we share our special days.
The happiness one for two.
And if we go separate ways.
Let my love remains be with you.
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