Monday, October 20, 2008

Be more expressive in love.

I personally think most Asian are unromantic and less expressive in love. Disregard the young one, but when mix around those who are thirty and above of age, they are conservative and shy in romance. Just give you one typical example. Mrs Yee who was married for twenty years with her husband, claimed her marriage is a happy one. Their love is within the heart, which is non expressive in words. The three sweet words, "I Love You" was never spoken before. There is no hug and kisses, except in bed with light switched off at nite. She used to call her husband by "hey! hey!" but lately has changed to follow the children by addressing him as "father" and he calls her as "mother". Just imagine she isn't fifty and yet behaves as much older. I asked her whether she loves the man and she said yes. However she prefers to keep her love feeling inside, rather than showing outwardly to the man she loves so much. She believes her love should be felt by the husband.

Not me! The five senses of human being are important factors in lives. In order for me to show my love to my little darling, I offer her the SIGHT of action to confess my feeling for her. I wrote to her endlessly these three words, "I love you" in every opportunity. I speak aloud without fear openly...."Little darling, I miss you and I need you". I am sure she has a good ear to HEAR and to listen with appreciation. I send her flowers to let her SMELLS with desire of excitement. Whenever I have the opportunity I kiss her to let her TASTE my sweetness for her. If she is near me, I will never fail to hug her with the TOUCH of need. Yes! These five senses; sight, hearing, smell, taste and touch help to create the grow of love stronger. Is so sad, the Asian here do not know how to make use of them to make love more pleasant and loving.

Food for the heart -"Do you want to know a good way to fall in love? Just associate with all your pleasant experiences with someone, and disassociate from all the unpleasant ones." - Richard Bandler


Anonymous said...

If a husband hugs n kisses u before he leaves the house,but the next moment when he comes across something unpleasant outside the house n shouts back at u,is that love ? or do u still looking forwards to his hugs n kisses ?

Robert Foo said...

Hi anonymous...

I like your comments. Had specially wrote a title.."What is love?" for you. Hope you like it.