Pussy Pussy where are you?

Two years ago June was only a friend to Calwin. They had great time together sharing all topics of interest. Whenever Calwin made a mistake, June would not take it seriously in heart then. One year later, they became best friends with more understanding and giving. They could criticize and comment without the fear of offending each other. They went further to go out alone to movies and shopping. They became closer, held hands and started to hug and kiss whenever the feeling came. Six months later, they became lovers when Calwin confessed to June.

Both this couple is in their mid twenties, whom I consider as young lovers. Out of the blue, Calwin asked and to seek my advices, "Love is nice and beautiful. I have not experienced it before, until I met June. When I was only a friend, and later as best friend to her, I could criticize and made complains against her. Though she might be angry at that time, she would never throw anger and frustration over me. Not now when she is my lover. I have to be cautious, patience and careful with my action and words with her now. When she was upset, she could scold me but I can't retaliate on her. Otherwise she would not talk to me for days. When I called her, she might not have the time for me but when she called me, I had to make sure I am all for her. When I talked she might not listen whole heartily, but when she spoke all ears had to be on her. Is this the result of love?"

I feel sorrowful for this innocent Calwin who is a bit confused with love. Love has pleasure but it comes along with pain as well. As long as the man had not disturbed the pussy inside her, she would always remain as good friend who won't throw anger and frustration over the man. Pussy pussy where are you? To Calwin...if you want the pussy, you have to tolerate her as a lover now.

Food for the heart - "It's better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all" - Alfred Lord Tennyson.