Tuesday, November 04, 2008

Criticism over Appreciation.



In the forty years of selling, I have had encountered all types of people. The rich or the poor and the young or the old. They have different personalities, characters, behaviour and manners. The main differences are between those who criticize and those who appreciate.

Let see whether I am right from my observation. Those who like to criticize will always love to criticize. Is their instinct for acting that way. They are very argumentative and calculative in nature. They are bold, daring and are risk takers. You won't be surprised, they are also smart and intelligence. They are goal getter and extremely focus in thought. As they are great thinkers and creative in mind, they are better in business. Most of the time, they don't trust people because they are judgemental in behaviour. They feel the whole world is against them. For that...they have hatred, jealousy, self-centred, close hearted and revengeful in personalities. However they are outspoken and not afraid to offend any listeners. Sad to say, they are the unlikeable type of people who would have little closed friends. The grudges and unsatisfied emotion make them to look haggard, moody and dull in facial. They fancy bright and daring colour like red and black. I think personally, they make lousy lovers and would never be satisfied in sex.

On the other hand, those who fall under the appreciative type will always offer compliments to others in their lives. To them, everyday is a good day, whether it rains or shines. Their heart is always happy, when they see the world as beautiful in every direction. They are light hearted and avoid complain in all ways. They are grateful for whatever they received and contented to what they are of today. Their smiles are sweet and sincere, which make them to be likable or even lovable to everyone they meet. In manner they are helpful and are all rounded all the time. They have an understanding thought, jovial personality and a laughable attitude. However with an easy contentment of heart, they are low risk takers. Most of the time, you could identify them with a neutral light colour of wearing. They look happy in facial and their eyes are always cheerful. Its a safe bet to pick an appreciative person to be a lover because they are more romantic in words and in action.

Which do you like- "If it's painful for you to criticize your friends, you're safe in doing it; if you take the slightest pleasure in it, that's the time to hold your tongue" — Alice Duer Miller (1874-1942).

Appreciation is the memory of the heart. — Bill Beattie

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

My dear Robert

One should be more appreciative at their age. Acceptance that one is growing old is part of God's plan.

Robert Foo said...

Hi Anonymous..04Nov..

Thanks for your comment.

Prof 5 said...

I prefer to say one should appreciate life instead of age. Some youngsters have a good personality like matured, responsible, respect, caring etc but there are also an old people with bad personality such as stubborn, dishonest, hatred, anger etc. We accept that we will grow older someday and died coz that’s the reality of life, but are we really appreciating the values in our lives? The people we touch? The love we share? The people we help? The beauty of our life…?

Robert Foo said...

Hi Prof 5...

Thank you for reading my blog and sharing your wisdom comments. I am still learning as long as i live.