Monday, November 17, 2008

Man's behaviour after sex.

Strictly to adults only.....

My blog has 5 different labels; Humour, Knowledge, Motivation, Romance and Wisdom, listed on the first page. Surprisingly on romance, it has the highest reading hits. Some might think, romance is the least important subject but majority thinks its interesting...they like and curious to read. After all, romance is love and without love there will be no feeling in this world. To those who think romance & love are unpleasant words, please skip this title and let those who are keen to read on. Coz love has got pleasure and pain.

I had read an interesting article many years ago..."The behaviour of sex making on man". An international survey was done on this topic..."What men normally do immediately after sex?" Before sex all men like to be intimate and be closed with women but not after sex. Thousand of interviews were conducted on sexually active couples. On this research, they gathered the 10 most common behaviours of man after ejaculation. They like to sleep alone, or smoke, or walk around, or have a drink, or read newspaper, or take shower, or make phone calls, or return home...if isn't spouse, or on Internet or last..watch tv.

Don't laugh.. if you are a man! Is this the way you treat your love? If you are, please take heal! Women are sensitive in this area. Otherwise...it might not be too long when your romance & love could be affected. The simple reason is, all women love to be cuddled after sex. They need the warm and assurance from man. Sex is bonding and after sex is time for understanding.

I had a chance to speak to two love birds who are successful in their romance. According to them, the ideal time to talk for any couple is after sex. Because that is the most intimate moment, when they could feel so strong and affectionate for each other. They could almost say anything they want without hurting each other. They could confess and confirm their love again. Either by verbal or body's language. The body's language is to cross each other legs, thight and feet. Skin to skin they rub..tenderly and softly they move. Or they cover themselves under the blanket and play naughty. To them, under the blanket is another love world which they could communicate.

If you want a longer and lasting love relationship or marriage...high time you have to look at yourself. Are you the selfish and uncaring sex lover? Most relationship and marriage were broken because the man did not understand the needs and the want of woman's heart. The little extra time you spend intimately with your partner after sex will built a stronger attachment in love. Whether you like it or not...these are true facts of life on love and sex... a sharing from my personal experience.

Food for the thought - "What holds the world together, as I have learned from bitter experience, is sexual intercourse." - Henry Miller

9 comments:

Anonymous said...

Just look at the animals... the dogs, ducks, and you will understand why men behave like that.
Don't you agree?

Anonymous said...

how can u put men in the same level as animals..hahaha... natural instinct?

Robert Foo said...

Hi anonymous...

Is true...coz we all are created by the same BOSS!!! Luckily man has a greater brain to think and logic....otherwise we could be worst off than those other animals.

Thank you for offering these interesting comments. I love to read them too.

RL said...

A man can think at his best after love making with someone who he loves and care. Its the fact of live, the BOSS made humans as couple..thats basic

Robert Foo said...

Hi RL...

Sex with true love gives the right energy. Your comment is totally right. Thanks again.

Anonymous said...

i agreed with you .....they are equal. ha..ha..ha..

Robert Foo said...

Hi Anonymous 28 Dec...

Thank you for reading my blog and agreeing with me.

--Masta Ignita-- said...

very easy: teasing and playing before sex to achieve an erection. and after sex, men are "sexually tired" both physically and mentally (i.e. men tend to watch porn only until ejaculation) so there is no need for further intercourse until the next erection. to put it simple for women sex is like a pyramid; for men just a slope.

Robert Foo said...

Hi Masta,

Thank you for being frank with this comment.