Wednesday, October 17, 2007

Are you speaking with your heart or mind?

Most of my clients took my advices when needed. I asked them, "Please tell me why you listen to my words?" They said, "Robert, not only you speak with your mind but you speak with your heart too." I believe is true! All of us speak with the mind all the time. Not many speak with the mind and the heart together. Mind can be creative and logical in sense. Is the heart that speaks with sincerity. Mind can be deceiving and corrupted but the heart speaks the truth. Although creative and logical words spoken with the mind can be convincing. It is even more powerful if sincerity of the heart is added. These words could be felt with emotion and feeling. The fact of life is that even you may know speaking with the heart is effective, you may still not speak with it. Because not many have sincerity in character.

David Caruso spoke, "It is very important to understand that emotional intelligence is not the opposite of intelligence, it is not the triumph of heart over head - it is the unique intersection of both."

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