I had a friendly chat with an elegant lady recently. Man and woman, the subject was brought up. She politely asked me, "Robert, do you know what is the different between having sex and making love?" With a bit of hesitation I replied, "They are more or less the same. Would be good, if you can enlighten me."
According to her, most men are corrupted in mind. Whenever they look at ladies, especially those they adore, their thoughts would be filled with sexual approaches. On the other hand, when ladies favour their men, they think more of making love. Making love is romance and preferable start off with something pleasant and relaxing. Perhaps over a candle lighted dinner with fine wine being served. May be added with some soft music and dance along with the tune. Both either chat or merely see each other eye to eye. With some affection, they hug and kiss to their emotion and feeling. The night might end just with a good night kiss or if the desire allows, sex is optional to the parties concern.
Love making is purer with a romantic thought in mind. Sex is vulgar and unrefined. An advice from this out spoken lady for the man. Approach ladies with tenderness, patience, care and plenty of love. Be a refine gentleman of perfection. Thank you my lady friend, I will be a better lover again.
Eddie Cantor spoke, "Slow down and enjoy life. It's not only the scenery you miss by going too fast-you miss the sense of where you are going and why." He was right, why just have sex when making love lasts longer.
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