Friday, April 27, 2012

Honest & sincere compliment.....

This happened over in my club.. 

Male member; "Hi handsome, you look great".

RF; "You make my day by addressing this name to me. I haven't received such compliment for a long time!"

Member; "You mean nobody call you by Mr Handsome?"

RF; "Yes! Male friends seldom call me as handsome, BUT most ladies and women love to call me handsome or even young man".

Male Member was caught with that statement. He didn't know how to response. Perhaps he was slow to think.

RF; "Do you know the different between ladies calling a man handsome over a man calling another man  as handsome?"

Member was slow again to react, "Really? I don't see any different!!"

RF; "Let me explain the different".......

When a woman addresses you as Handsome, she might have two different intentions. Either she has the sincerity to see you as truly a handsome man to her or she doesn't see you at all as a handsome person but yet called you as handsome. The upper is a genuine compliment, whereas the latter is for the sake of gaining some favour from the man. A not so clever man might be taken for a ride and feel happy over such sweet recognition from the lady's giver. A naughty and playful guy like me, I would certainly be able to see the different. See her eyes and listen to her voice, and with some experiences, the truth would be revealed. On the other hand, man seldom behaves like woman. When a man addresses another man as handsome, you rest assure that is the real compliment for his friend.

RF; "You really make my day friend".

Food for thought - "Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around" -
Leo Buscaglia quotes

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