Friday, January 16, 2009

This is my sweetheart.

Do u have this unpleasant feeling?

U are deeply in love when both lovers trust each other. U might have the understanding, patience, tolerance, affection and passion, but when you see her talking closely with another handsome man, or when she sees you chatting and laughing with another attractive lady, I believe there would still be some jealousy in the mind. Most of us might pretend that nothing has happened but deep down our heart there is the ' sour sour feeling' which I consider as unpleasant feeling.

On sharing with my little darling who loves me sincerely, she was frank to admit that this unpleasant feeling did occur when she happened to see my secret admirers who were with me at times. Though our trust is strong, some jealousies are unavoidable. To win her heart again, I always introduced them as, "These are my dears and she is my sweetheart", holding her hand at the same time. After that I could see her eyes grew with more confidence again. This tip is meant for the gentlemen who are caught unguarded with ladies.

My little darling is equally an understanding lover too. She knows not to hurt my feeling, when she is with her male acquaintances, she always introduces me as her sweetheart as well, while holding my arm tenderly. Her touch creates a sense of pride and confidence in me. This tip is relevant to the attending ladies who care for their men.

To be in love is common but to maintain a long lasting romance needs a lot of understanding in love. The little caring and thoughts make a lot of different in a relationship. I am still learning and I hope somebody out there can share with me too.

Food for the thought - "Plain women are always jealous of their husbands. Beautiful women never are. They are always so occupied with being jealous of other women's husbands." - Oscar Wilde


Anonymous said...

Hi Robert,

Being jealous is a sign of love but with a certain barrier. Sweet to realised our soulmate shows his/her jealousy. But then its up to us to confide them by giving back the trust that they have given us.To hold her hand is one way.
This reminds me that in whatever we do, there is a barrier and discipline within us because of love...we are grown-ups developing to be wise and strong in principle..we need to demonstrate it...because words of promises alone does not confide.
Thank you for reminding.

Red Lavender

Robert Foo said...

Hi RL,

I thought...I was wrong to be jealous in love but your sharing confirmed it is natural to react in such a way. Thank you for your comment.