Monday, April 13, 2009

Is money important in love?

Most would say 'yes', but some isn't. Quote two typical cases I encountered lately. Wah Lee is in her mid forties, still single and has plenty of love to offer. She had a boyfriend who could only offer her sex and intimacy. The man is not doing well, unable to offer her any financial support and is not ready to marry the unhappy lady. The only thing he gave was romance and love. Out of frustration and anger, she drew up her courage to kick the man away from her live. She felt she was like living as a sex slave for the man, though she also missed him as well.


Diana was totally different coz her husband is rich and famous. She isn't happy either as the man has no time to make love with the wife. To replace 'care and love' for the wife, he gives whatever money could buy for the woman and the family. Love and sex is forgotten! The woman cries in tears silently, her heart misses the hugs and kisses from the man. Without calmness and peace, her words are arrogance and forceful all the time. She might look attractive in richness but she is an unhappy person coz money has drifted her husband too far away.

Too little money is bad and too much of it could be sinful. "Be happy with what you have and are, be generous with both, and you won't have to hunt for happiness." - William E. Gladstone

6 comments:

LMc1381 said...

I think everything is good in moderation. In your first case, if the man can't offer anything else in a relationship, then it isn't worth being in, even if the sex is good.

In the 2nd case, money cannot replace the intimate connection that needs to be felt between a man and women. I think that is why a lot of rich/famous people, such as actors and musicians tend to get divorced a lot. There is no love and intimacy, just money.

Robert Foo said...

Hi LMc1381...

And that is why both cases ended unhappily. Check and balance are important in life.

RL said...

Dear Bro,

To answer if money is important in love...ITS YES ...
No Money No Life No Love , simple as that.

regards,
Red Lavender

lim said...

I will rather to be rich than poor as i always believe $$ can buy happiness. It depends on how you want to make it happen but not wait for things to happen!!

Robert Foo said...

Hi sis...

Every time when I am with my little darling, I am the one who should pay when she spend. Yes! money is certainly important.

Robert Foo said...

Hi Lim...

Money can make the world goes round and round. I think you are totally right.