She is lonesome.

I might not know Vasala personally. From my closed associate, I was told she isn't a happy lady at the moment. Though she has been selling life insurance for many years and making no head way, she used to complain her sorrow to another lady agent. She is in her mid forties, a divorcee and still remains single by herself. Her colleagues found it difficult to inspire and motivate this frustrating lady. To her, the world is always against her.

To sell life insurance an agent has to be a rounded person, understands all aspects of life. His/her heart has to be happy, in order to see a beautiful world. Without it, most likely that agent will find it difficult to stay in our challenging business.

I believe Vasala is lonesome in heart. She not only needs friends, but she needs an intimate man to love and romance with her. Forget her past memories and mistakes. After all, mistakes are our teachers of life...including love mistakes. Go out! Give herself a chance to seek for an ideal man who could love her with joy and provides her the energy to live. No man could live alone, neither can Vasala who is still attractive and young.

I am sure, there are many Vasala's type of ladies around in life. Hope my short message could enlighten them.

Food for thought - "If you want others to be happy, practise compassion. If you want to be happy, practise compassion" - The Dalai Lama.