Friday, October 30, 2009

Jealous heart.

I introduced Wati to Faisal a few months ago. Faisal got crazy with Wati shortly after meeting her, because she is a young beautiful and a sexy girl. Being a fast worker, he managed to win over the gorgeous lady. Good for both of them.

Out of curiosity, this afternoon i posted a personal question to this in love friend. "Faisal, when you are with Wati who dresses so beautifully all the time. Do you feel honour to be with her?"

This was his reply, "I feel proud and happy whenever i am with sexy ladies. More so with Wati whom i love so much. I feel great and fantastic when all eyes are on her. My heart is excited because she is my girlfriend to show."

Next question to Faisal. "You are not with her, when all eyes are at her. Tell me how do you feel then."

Reluctantly he admitted, "I am jealous when other men are staring at her. I prefer she doesn't dress too sexy, especially when i am not with her."

Funny isn't it! He can be looking at other pretty women but he cannot allow other men to be watching his lover. The only one word i could think of is Selfish of him. Selfishness comes when a man isn't confidence of himself. As long as he lacks the personal confidence of a gentleman to court an eligible lady, he is worried that another more qualified man might take her away from him.

Some tips for my friend. Love is patient and kind. It doesn't envy, it doesn't boast, it isn't proud. It isn't rude, it isn't self seeking, it isn't easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.

If both Faisal and Wati have the above understanding, then TRUST will be there between both of them, instead of Selfishness.

Specially for Faisal - "Love doesn't make the world go round. Love is what makes the ride worthwhile" - Franklin P. Jones.

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