Friday, October 02, 2009

My girlfriend dumped me!

Anonymous has left a new comment on my post "I fell in love with a wonderful married man.": which was written on Jan 22 2008, and had captured a lot of attention worldwide. Yesterday an anonymous had written his personal experience. I think his comment is worth sharing. Please feel free to add further suggestions.

Well, the world has change, for better or worst I don't know.
I'm a guy just being dumped 2 weeks ago by my girlfriend who is in love a guy with a wife after 10 years of relationship.

Everyone that is self proclaim educated will tell you to think about yourself. Well, you can go on.. Do whatever you want. You can create suffering for others or you can keep your self suffering. It's a free world after all. Don't care what's the cause or implication just do it.

To be honest, I don't think a married man would want to divorce his wife. Unless the wife knows about it or the story is the other way round where the wife has an affair and she will be calling her marriage.

Women are more determine to do something for love but not man. Man is just for the pleasure and fun.

For Women, it's excitement without themselves knowing it. Ahem.. maybe married man a great in bed.

There's 2 way out, talk to the wife... But most likely you won't because you like her and you yourself know that he will back out of you if this affair is discovered.

Why do I say this? Cause have just encounter the experience.

You can say I'm bias, but think about it. What if he loves another women later? Divorce? Well that's the trend.. Go ahead.

Maybe you think I'm bias since I just being dump. Well, I'm still suffering from insomnia thanks to the affair who knows I can find a better women after that or become a womanizer. Lives will move on. Don't care whether his wife will end her life... Your life will still move on.

To this anonymous ...Thank you for reading my blog and taking time to share your experiences. Would like to share my belief with you - "Mistakes are our teachers. Including love mistakes". You are totally right, "Just move on with your life".


RL said...

Dear Anonymous,

She is not worth it anyway.
You will bump into that "someone" one day without wanting to.... life can be weird sometimes.Life goes on...

Robert Foo said...

Hi sister,

Hope anonymous would take our hint.
Thanks for your suggestion.

Anonymous said...

Brim over I to but I dream the post should secure more info then it has.

Robert Foo said...

Hi Anonymous 28 Dec,

Thank you for reading my blog.

Anonymous said...

Hey - I am certainly glad to find this. great job!