Tuesday, April 01, 2008

Can you talk effectively?

My sweetheart said, "Dear, did you know you had spoken with me for two hours already on the line. Aren't you tired love?" What a remark on April Fool's Day!!!

I told her, "When you speak to the one you like and love, you will not get tire. And the one who listens, has interest over the speaker, will not get bored either." Is true readers coz I am not fooling you.

Whenever I had the chance to meet people or even strangers, I like to talk. More so, if I know through my instinct, that they are good listeners, I would spend more time with them. Talking allows one to express one's feeling. Is only through talking one could share thoughts and ideas. Talking sells oneself to be a likable person to others. Talking helps another to understand life. Talking sells your products and services. Talking creates hopes and inspire. Talking can make the other party to love you. Talking is a hobby which costs nothing, except the interest to talk. However to talk with effectiveness, one has to have the passion to talk. The passion is gathered from love and desire of the heart. If one is truly spoken from the heart, the energy vibrated could be felt as sincere and kind. With a little experience, perhaps one could even develop the art of talking and speaking. That is when excitement and enthusiasm are added to refine your words and tune. Of course most important, one must have the genuine desire to talk when necessary. Otherwise you could cause unnecessary time and inconvenient to your listeners. By the way, I have three best friends who love talking. Myself, me and I could be invited to talk at any time. Please try on us!

I was told; "For a long term relationship of a man and a woman. One has to be a keen talker and the other has to be a good listener. They rest assure the partnership will last forever."


Anonymous said...

Hi Young Man!
Most of us are chatter-boxes cos we
don't know the art of talking with
effectiveness. A good listener would take the necessary action.
Both the Speaker or Listener benefited. Anyway, "Action speaks louder than Words".
With sincere thanks for sharing with your readers.
From Young Kat

Robert Foo said...

Hi Young Kat..

Although we can't talk and listen over on this blog,but I can write and you comment. What a wonderful combination of strength and sharing. Thanks again.

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Robert Foo said...

Hi Anonymous 29 Nov...Thank you for reading my blog..

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Robert Foo said...

Hi Anonymous 20 Mar,

Thank you for reading my blog.