Wednesday, December 10, 2008

Pull or push?

One of my friend, Eugene is migrating to Australia soon. According to him, there are two main factors for leaving the country. Either is the pull or push or both factors. The pull factor is the attraction from the migrating country provides and the push factor is from the country originated from. Currently he is affected by both factors, which give him more reasons to move.

The pull and push are interesting words to me. Without the pull of my clients, I would not have lasted so long in my business. Their 'pull' comes in the form of respect, value and hopes which attracted me to work harder. I consider the push is good and not a negative force in me. Without pushing myself, I won't have been successful in the first place. Further more without pushing, nothing would move.

Even in winning over women, men need the pull and push. The ladies have to be intelligence and attractive, to pull the attention of men. Without this pull of woman's charm, men won't push so hard to gain the love from them. Whether we like it or not, the forces of pull and push are important in our life. Know where to locate the pulling energy and tap the pushing force to get what you want.

Food for the thought - "Dare to reach out your hand into the darkness, to pull another hand into the light" - Norman B. Rice.


Anonymous said...

Hi Robert,

The push and all comes from the heart
The pull that woman use end of the day is the inner beauty that man push from his charm and gentleness.
When this happens, relationships becomes more interesting, more pull and push and ends up with love relationship. Love just does not happen, we need to find it,develop it, structure it and sustain it. We need to earn it..nothing comes for free...and thats what make it special.

Red Lavender

Robert Foo said...

Hi RL...

What a marvellous comment. You are truly a lady who has the touch of love. Thank you so much.