Monday, July 07, 2008

Afraid to lose my love.


"All my life I was afraid that I would never find love....and now that I've found it, I 'm afraid that I will lose it." This statement can be applied to many or even to you readers if you are in love now. I think when one is too deeply in love, our emotion can be over possessive at times. You can also be selfish in thought, trying to control your love without realising, you can actually hurt the other party. Perhaps you might not want to reveal your inner intention, afraid and shameful to tell about these weaknesses. I believe very few could honestly claim that they trust love, coz saying it and doing it are two different things. Meaning you can say, you trust and understand your love, but deep down your mind and heart, I guess you still have a little bit of fear which others can't see and feel. Nobody in this world is perfect. So! As long as you try to love whole heartily, don't be afraid you will lose your love. After all our mind sometimes can play dirty with ourselves.

This can happen again. "When two friends fall in love, they learn they are meant for each other. When they fell out of love, they realise they want to keep each other forever." Possessiveness and selfishness are the evil of such distrust. If you can, avoid them!

2 comments:

Red Lavender said...

Dear Mr Heart to Heart Talk,

When we love, it is understood that we are willing to take all risk...one of the risk is loosing it...loosing love.
Love means to sacrifice, to accept the worst that may come to life...
Love also means to be prepared spiritually to be hurt...
Love also means pain...no matter in what aspect.
So the true meaning of love is defined as the most wonderful thing
with the balance of the most painful thing...only then that individual can be more mature and courageous in moving on with life.
I admire your passion of love and the fact that one day it will not be there,but its no harm in being afraid of loosing it because it takes so many elements in achieving the love that you have now.
But then we need the balance of nature....And I know that I wont want to loose my love...with your statement here...I know that I m not alone,and now I share my concern, by writing this, it helps me to remind myself that I may loose it...so I need to be prepared mentally and physically and pray I dont have to loose it.

sincerely,
Red Lavender

Robert Foo said...

Hi Red Lavender...

I am glad we share the same thought.I am lucky to have a supportive reader like u to enlight my fear. Therefore, I have to be like you...to be prepared mentally and physically and pray I don't have to loose it. Thank you.